Life is full of surprises and at this point in time there will be many I suspect. The one thing I noticed as I went through the change was that my hubby went through some of the best changes as well. Men take so long to mature and then once they realize that they too must change it takes them by storm. Its a tough time to go through but hang in there and hopefully you will come out with a better understanding of one another. This apology might be the first of many to come and he himself may come to be more sensitive to you and the changes your going through. You might find your emotions all over the place for awhile and your brain feels detached somehow. I used to call that period my out of body experiences. Weird really. Hot flashes do strange things to us physically. Hormones through us into crazy mood swings at times. We may fly off the handle for no clear reason and we may want to cry over nothing much at all. It can be confusing and it can lead to some bad behaviour. Try to stay in control as much as possible and if it all becomes too crazy use some natural HRT. I felt It affected my confidence for awhile but I’m back so to speak and feel good. So shall you in time. Keep away from gambling and you’ll find everything easier getting through this too Fg
