Sorry that you are not feeling well and I hope that you get better soon. Good for you for standing up for yourself and letting Danny know that you are not accepting his behaviour towards you. It is true if you have funds in your own account then it is your own business and responsibility on how you budget/spend it. I hope and pray that you find a job that works out well for you and then it will give your more independence from Danny.
It is wonderful to read your post and see how you are not going to let the stress cause negative behaviours today. You have come such a long way (((Carole))) I am so proud of you for eating healthy and losing weight, as I know that is not an easy thing to do.
One day at a time is the best way to go for everything!!!!