Yes, I agree with Nomore, Jenny.
Blocking his calls and texts would solve some of your problems.
But maybe you still need his attention?
Just sayin!
Women are like that. We don’t like to be ignored or rejected and even negative contact is better than none. It sort of keeps us in the loop.
The time will come when things will move from your heart to your head Jenny. In the meantime, try not to allow him to tug on your heartstrings.
CGs (as I said before) know how to play vulnerable people like a fiddle.
If you do decide to block his texts let him know your decision.
Then he will learn to stop barking up the wrong tree.
Take control by setting boundaries. Don’t allow him to call all the shots.
“What’s in it for me”, is the question you need to ask yourself regarding your reaction to contact from him.
Breaking co dependent relationships is scary.
Some part of you needs his attention if my hunch is right.
If I’m off the track say so and I will delete this post. The last thing I want to do is upset or judge you. You have enough to deal with and you really are making great strides. Well done!
I have a deep respect for “F and F’s”,
‘Don’t know if I could hack it.
The less power he has over you, the easier it will be for you to get on with your life.
Take back that power little by little, Jenny. It works!
