Jonny,
There is only one thing worse than blaming yourself and that is when we blame others. I know people who do and I often blamed others too. “If only he/she had/hadn’t/said/done this or that”….not uncommon. I even met people who blamed the machines in the casinos. “If only these machines weren’t rigged, I could play like a normal person.”
Bottom line, Jon, we are to blame. We did it. We gave into our base instincts. We refused to listen. We screwed up. Over and out. That being said, we don’y need to crucify ourselves forever. What we need to do is CHANGE.
Change our actions. Change our habits. Change our mindset,
The rest will follow.
One day at a time.
You are doing brilliantly.
I’m not doing too badly myself!
Let’s give each other a clap on the back.
