Do you have any idea why you always blamed yourself for all the family problems, and dysfunctions, Lizbeth?
Did somebody else blame you ?
Taking the blame for others often gives them an opportunity to place more stress on you by acting as they want , knowing someone else will pick up the tab.
Family dynamics change when one person set boundaries or removes his or herself from the “blame” position. I see it in my own family.
It’s good to reshuffle the cards and let others take responsibility too.
I hope your youngest daughter is well.
She is in my thoughts and prayers.
