…is a long time, Paul. Walking away is not the solution to your wife’s gambling problem. I’m telling you honestly, if my husband had done what you are considering, in the throes of my gambling, it would have given me exactly what I desired-lots of money and a great excuse to continue self destructing. I’m glad it didn’t pan out that way.
I’m even longer married than you, Paul.
Gambling is not about money. It’s an emotional problem.
I suggest you try GAMANON and the Live chats here in F and F, where you will meet others who are sick to the stomach of “Significant Others’ gambling.
Sit tight and lock down ALL your funds, property and valuables.
Money is merely ammunition for a CG. Keep communication lines open.