So here’s mine-Don’t apologize anymore for the same thing Liz. I had a friend who told me to stop saying I was sorry over and over, he said it sounded insincere when in fact i now know it was my co dependent people pleasing way of trying to control the situtation. My ga buddy used to have horrible fights with her 2 girls – they blamed her for everything that was wrong in their life. After many phone calls to her sponser she gave her the advice that i have found very helpful. “you already apoligized, you were sincere, you can’t fix the past. Other peoples opinion of you is none of your business. They are entitled to their own feelings . Let them know you choose to look foward, not backward.”
I think that applies to many things in life.
Like I said, my 2 cents, for what it’s worth.
bettie
