Hi Don and welcome to the site. I think if we wee the type of people who could “control and enjoy” gambling then to be frank we wouldn’t have the problem in the first place. You can stop gambling I promise you.
Start by starting your own thread. Just scroll to the bottom of this Forum and type in the “Create new Topic” box. I can reply more there but things would just get confusing for all if I try and give you advice on someone elses thread.
I will watch out for your new thread. 🙂