[timetostop]

Velvet, Thankyou for your response and information for the partners. We are trying to work through it all and find mediums that work for us and by finally admitting it and posting on here it feels real and the start of a move in the right direction, for me any way I believe for my wife it’s just the same cycle that has been going on for so long she knew it was a problem way before I could face up to it all.

Thanks again