Lind, thank you for your response. You sound exhausting. It’s exhausting isn’t it. ‘Who is looking after me in this situation? Who is making me feel safe and secure?’ – I feel this completely. I am very much out of my marriage and my ex has come to me as a friend – but still I think, I’m the mother of your children, why do you not care enough to keep me safe? Why are you angry with me for not giving you the money?
I know it’s not as simple as that. But why not?? Why can’t they see that what they’re doing is hurtful. So hurtful. Sometimes I hate that it’s an illness because I just want to shout and scream and say stop being so selfish.
I have not given him the money. I don’t know that I won’t. But I’ve suggested other avenues for him to investigate. Which is making him angry because of course the quickest and easiest solution is just to ask me.
Thank you for your response Lind. You sound like you are having such a tough time. It really does destroy lives doesn’t it xx