Hi,
Your registered as heartbroken and I can understand that.
Your ex husband couldn’t control the last 9 months how can he control any money you were to lend him now?
I’m in the middle of divorce, I have paid dearly and I too have been heartbroken.
I understand that my husband is not ready for change and he can keep taking or I can say I love him but who is looking after me in this situation? Who makes me feel safe and secure?
What I want is my husband without the gambling, the chaos, the unhappiness, the lies. That person doesn’t exist at this moment, that is my dreams and my wishes for all that could have been.
You have yourself and your children to look after. That money can’t fix your ex husband but it can help you to have a life with your children that will allow you some security. You left the marriage but your maybe still holding on to the fantasy this time it will be different? To give your money to your husband is you gambling your safety security and that of your children.
Chose to take care of yourself and your kids and take some time to try and mend your heart
