Thank you again for your help. It’s important to note that my eyes are wide open and I still don’t have an ounce of trust in him. I’m being very cautious, indeed.
His first therapy session went very well. He really likes this therapist and actually spent over an hour telling me about the session. I’m not surprised that everything she told him is what you’ve told me. He has another appointment next Thursday. He will go weekly for now. He is very excited about this and has shown me all his bank transactions since last Friday when he agreed again to “be done”. It’s day by day right now for me. I will keep you updated on his progress. Thank you for everything. You saved me from giving up at the start. Your perspective seems to be right on in comparison with his therapist. The things you have told me are not things I could have figured out on my own. I knew nothing of the way the brain of a compulsive gambler works until you told me. I was taking it so personally that he would sabotage us like that. I see it in a completely different light now thanks to you.