Hi Cat, Well done on looking for help. Read the otehr stories here, you will read a lot that you will relate to. You will also see the success stories and the sorts of thigns that have helped others stop gambling – what can you apply to your own situation?
There is an old saying – actions speak louder than words. the actions that will help you stop gambling are the same actions that might help rebuild trust with your husband. Actions like getting excluded, being accountable and limiting access to funds so that you can’t gamble. Importantly actions like getting to support, posting here, groups, maybe Gamblers Anonymous meetigns – if we could do it on our own then none of us would be here.
Keep posting and let us know what positive actions you are taking.