Hi Hema
Well done writing your first post, I know how difficult it is especially when you are exhausted.
I am hoping you will post again and tell me a little more about yourself and your situation with your husband. Sharing with someone who understands can be rewarding – I know because it happened to me and nothing you say will surprise me.
Nobody can ‘make’ a gambler stop gambling and sometimes a gambler has to hurt himself enough before he will face his demons and change his life but true recoveries do start or I would not be writing to you now.
You matter Hema, you are unique and special but sadly you are also exhausted. You need to recover and I know you can do it.
It would be great if you were to join me in the Friends and Family group where we can communicate in real time, it is private and safe. Nothing said in the group appears in the forum. The group times are 7pm to 8pm on Tuesdays and 10pm -11pm on Thursday, I would love to welcome you.
Please keep posting and sharing and hopefully between the two of us you can find some answers and peace of mind.
Velvet