[caribbean blue]

Thanks for the support Velvet. I have lost touch with friends over the years so my husband was the main person I talked to and hung out with. My friends and I lost touch way before he had a gambling problem. My counsellor helps as do my parents (for the most part). They are getting better. I do have a support group I phone in to. I just think I get impatient and want things to get done quicker than what is realistic. I do have to focus more on me and that can be hard as I am so use to focusing on him and his problem. Baby steps though. I am getting better at noticing that I am doing that.

Talk soon
CB