Hi
Thanks for the response and supportive words. I do feel myself getting stronger and not being around the drama that comes with my husband’s problem, I am less anxious.
My parents are helping me financially right now and I think that is the sore spot for them. They knew about the debt before we split but they did not have to do anything about it. Now I need their help to replace the money that my husband would put in. They have always had problems with emotional support. They don’t always listen that good and want to provide the advice even though they don’t know how to deal with addiction. They are very angry right now and I unfortunately get the brunt of it.
My dad keeps asking me when he will put money in for debt repayment. I say not sure but while he is actively gambling he probably will not. That is not a good enough answer though as he keeps asking.
The time the group is at is in the middle of the work day for me so I am not sure if I will be able to join. I will see how things go.