Hi Carole
Thanks for your post.. i am glad you decided against doing another donation, it sounds like what you did was well enough. its good you donated at all..
As for the cats, thats what my vet was talking about to me, as i wanted another and he said some will never get used to each other. I wonder if you have any friends or family who want a cat and they could perhaps take on your mums cat or it could be quite stressful for you and the kitties..
Hope you are keeping well and i love how you section your food into portion sizes, i am not good with portions, i love my food and struggle to not overeat. I hope that things work out financially, i must say i didnt like the sound of you having to wait Five years for payment.. hmmmm. Not something that would sit well with me either, a lot could happen in Five years.
You need that money to establish your new life. Sounds like you have tested the waters over and over with Danny and you have made the most positive choice, i am sure if the issues were there for so many years they would continue.. but you need to do what brings you contentment and peace too.. if it would bring you happiness being back with Danny there is nothing wrong with that, or if it makes you happy being single nothing wrong with that either, gotta do whats the best and healthiest choice for you.. you are not gambling which is wonderful, throw that into the mix and things will get a whole lot worse.
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