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Thanks do much for your kind comments and advice. As it happened I spoke to her today. I let her know that I wasn’t judging her but more focused on how I feel and how my kids feel..She told me she quit a few days ago which is consistent with my observation however clearly we are in for along journey but at least the ball has started rolling. I encouraged her to reach out to this site and she agreed so for now I guess we facing one moment at a time….thank you so much