Hiya
What film are you thinking of going to see?
I know that anything I suggest is difficult but I do know you can come out of this and live the life you deserve.
His mind is elsewhere but gambling holds him – it isn’t that he cares about it more than anything else – he is gripped by it and it is impossible to know what is going on in his mind at the moment – but you are married and neither of you is asking for that relationship to end. Whatever the outcome however, the more you look after ‘you’ the better it will be for both of you.
Friendships develop slowly, I can hear you are a person who would make a good friend and for what it is worth you have a cyber-friend here who will always listen.
Velvet
