I hear ya Chalsteve!
Dealing with a compulsive gambler in your home is the most frustrating, infuriating, exhausting and depressing thing going.
You sound like you are hitting your proverbial “rock bottom”. It’s so nice to hit that point where we finally are tired of worrying about them and start worrying about ourselves.
Try to remember this isn’t personal. He is an addict and when in action really can’t put much thought or concern to anything but getting his next fix.
It’s never too late… there is always hope. One day it may be you and your son sharing a beer in the pub.
Keep the faith!
Cathyx