I guess abstinent for me this year involves words that comes out of my mouth.
saying irresponsible things can be fun, unfortunately it can hurt someone at the same time, it is so selfish and inconsiderate.
Imagine how harmful and destructive words can be when saying something to a person can plant the seed of resentment inside them, it can harm their recovery in the end, this is so cruel and wicked.
Sometime it is very tempting to share or say something in the group when I should not say a word, I was impulsive and show a lack of self-control.
saying something can prove that I know something and you do not, it can made me look superior and the other inferior.
It is not important to say anything anymore. It does not benefit or help the other person and me.
I better mind my own business and do someone a favor. Keep my mouth shut.