Thankyou so much for replying, i genuinely do not think i can tell him, im so ashamed and scared of the consequences. He doesnt understand my issues because when gambling got too much for him ( mainly roulette so slightly different) he only took what he wanted to spend to the shop and set a limit in his head of what he would withdraw .. these steps do not work for me which is what he doesnt understand .. i will carry on reading posts on here and i will look up when my nearest GA meeting is and close my accounts,i feel alot better knowing other people have been through this/going through this and have a better quality of life now and have managed to overcome it, i know there are going to be hurdles along the way but as long as i have some kind of support i can get through this.
