18 September 2015 at 1:49 pm
#4073
vera
Participant
I agree with every word in the first three paragraphs of Jenny’s post.
It is impossible to read a CG’s mind, or figure out our devious plans.
Rational solutions do not apply to irrational acts.
Give him a wide berth, Mermaid.
He needs to paddle his own canoe even if it does mean hitting rock bottom.
I understand how it is very tempting to enable him. I would probably do likewise if I were in your shoes. When our heart rules our head, we make crazy decisions. And we pay the price!