In my book , Mermaid “Show me a bit of trust” meant “Get off my back and keep the funds flowing so I can gamble in peace”
A CG cannot gamble without money.
When we are supplied with cash, deep down we (I) justified my gambling by saying (but not out loud, of course) “Well he allowed me to continue, by making money available so it’s not TOTALLY my fault. After all I’m vulnerable”
HA!
Another peep into this CG’s mind.
We are all different of course but the outcome of gambling never changes.
For every CG and their SOs, it always ends in bitter tears.
Keep your boundaries high Mermaid Take this a a warning.
When you return to the chaos you might not be able to stay as focused as you are now.
Not judging. Just saying!
