Tina, as much as I would like to tell you that the debt will disappear, I can only say it won’t.
Further gambling will add to it.
Secrecy enables up to keep borrowing.
Denial and fear will only serve to postpone the dreaded confession.
The truth is only way to deal with your relationship and your gambling.
One word of advice. If you plan on telling him anything, tell him everything. Drip feeding information about gambling and debt has a more detrimental effect on relationships than spitting out the full truth.
Pick the right moment . C ount to three. Say a prayer . And let it all out!
Good luck!
