Thanks I did it. My GA group used to refer to “stop the bleeding” One of the first things is to plug the holes to stop the bleeding of money. A crack addict would be dead if they tried to inject the amount of money we spend (not to belittle such an addiction). We bleed it all until there is nothing left! Some start gambling at a time in their life where they have savings built up, a home, retirement fund. And if the CG in full blown action doesn’t prevent it by turning over finances, or locking things up so they cant be touched we will tragically bleed every last cent! Now some are not full blown yet and still inflict massive damage. Money is important to live, to provide the necessities of life, and yes some pleasures for sure. But with necessities taken care of we can focus on our own mental health. Once we stop the bleeding and immerse ourselves in recovery the money will usually being to take care of itself.
So i’ve been spending lots of time on the forum. And as a result I have been putting pressure on my physical health. I AM feeling better, but I am still not in great shape. I have a list as long as my arm of paper work to deal with. Insurance forms, medical claims, not to mention household bills that need to be opened and paid. Grateful to be able to say “and paid”. So I’ll be a little quieter next couple of days to settle things down again and take care of personal business. Part of my recovery is taking care of me. So a little self care required. Roots that need covering lol
So time to just jump in and gets some stuff done!
Laura