Hi, I have to make a change and welcome to the forum.
Good name, so what can you change? What things can you start to put in place before you get paid next?
Keep reading the other stories here, you will see that you are not along with this problem. you will also see the sort of things that have helped others stop gambling. How about getting yourself banned from that club? Yes I know there are other gambling places but it will take you out of the one you are using now. it will stop you being tempted to gamble with your friend when she goes there. Is there anyone who could hold your money for you when you do get paid?
There is a lot of support available to you now – here, places like Gamblers Anonymous, counselling and more.
Regarding those debts there are also a lot of financial options available these days, from repayment plans to bankruptcy and a lot in between. Get some proper financial advice. If you click on the resources link here or connect to the helpline you will be able to get some useful links for that.
Don’t wait until next pay day, keep posting and let us know what thigns youa re starting to put in place now.