You know what, Valentines day has never bothered me, until now.
For a very long time i scoffed at it, a load of rot, waste of money…..because i never expected, nor got anything for valentines day.
Listening to the boys on group tonight made me realise, that unlike my husband, men do think about valentines day. I did not know this because me being me, still has the unrealistic belief that all men are the same, tarred with the same brush, and to my lovely men here at GT i apologise for that.
I got home from work tonight and worked like a dog. I did not sit down until 9pm, and when i asked my husband if he could turn tea on before i got home it was met with an ‘ok’ and a refusal to speak to me for the rest of the night.
Happy Valentines Day……
Thankfully, it has allowed me to let go of some guilt, i have been asked to go to Bali for a week or so with a friend, all i need is the airfare and i asked hubby yesterday morning like a frightened little child if i could go. He did say yes, and i have just decided that it is my valentines day gift to myself. I deserve a holiday, a chance to relax, to be pampered, to live like a queen just for a little while. Its not until July, so if i start posting that i feel guilty will someone please slap me and tell me to look at my valentines day post!!!
Happy Valentines Day……
K x
To live, that would be a great adventure – Peter Pan
