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Re: BELIEVE (new thread)

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vera
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Hi Kathryn!
Didn’t get much chance to say anything last time our paths crossed in the chat room!
Sometimes unresolved issues take over there!
I hope you are still enjoying your job and that things work out well for your boy!
My two sons were home on Monday night. The quiet one from Holland and the "wayward" one from Dublin. He decided to take out his unresolved anger and aggression on me and had quite a bit of alcohol taken so I refused to rise to the bait. Hubby just sat in silence pretending not to notice. It drives me mad!
I think, if I were a man and if I heard my son/brother speak to my wife/mother in the disrespectful tone I was spoken to, I would place a running kick where he would feel it most.
My other  son was very sympathetic the next day, saying it was a disgrace how his younger brother behaved but DID NOTHING at the time!
Im glad Bailey is getting sorted out now. Much easier when they are young. I should have insisted that my son got help for his anger when he was still under my control.
Ah well! Its never to late. I keep hoping he will turn a corner one day. He might surprise us all yet!