Dear (((Liz)))! I’m so glad to hear that you did what was right for you. I understand a little about not being ready to scatter your husband’s ashes, as it took us 4 to 5 years before we were ready to scatter our "best" dog’s ashes. Please don’t think that I’m comparing scattering your husband’s ashes to a dog’s ashes. It was just too painful to even think about for both of us. There is no time schedule to buy new living room furniture or go through your husband’s personal effects. Be gentle on yourself (((Liz))). Carole
