Women (and maybe some men too (lol), can be idealistic about marriage Carole)….sometimes we just have to face up to what IS and drop our ideals and look at reality. The reality , for you right now is that you cannot control your gambling. Being in a strange city where you don’t have to account for your moves and as you identified you can act anonymously is the worst place for you to be. The country may not be a perfect place but it has it’s advantages. Maybe when you talk to Danny, lay down some terms and conditions and settle back with your family around you, you will stop gambling.
Nothing like a clean slate to motivate a CG!
You are in my thoughts and prayers Carole. I hope all works out well for you. ODAAT!
