Sorry, Cat, but I need to disagree with you. It DOES matter what others advise and suggest, isn’t that what we are really here for? I know that I may not have followed all the advice I have been given here but I am grateful for anyone’s suggestions because I needed the support I found here. If only one piece of advice or only one suggestion is helpful to someone and aids in their recovery then it is all worthwhile to keep and open mind and listen. Everything that people say here in compassion and caring matters. Debbie
