[velvet]

Olá Mamakate

Obrigado por iniciar um tópico no fórum de amigos e familiares da Gambling Therapy. Este fórum fornecerá cordialidade e compreensão de seus colegas.

Sinta-se à vontade para usar o grupo de amigos e família, você encontrará os horários para eles clicando na caixa “Horários do grupo” em nossa página inicial

Leia sobre os amigos e grupos online da família

Agora que você se apresentou, vai descobrir que muitas das pessoas que você encontra aqui já leram sua introdução inicial e vão recebê-lo como um velho amigo 🙂

Se você é o amigo ou membro da família de alguém que é ou dentro, ou tem sido através, o programa residencial GMA por favor, tome cuidado extra para se certificar de que nada se diz em grupos, ou em nossos fóruns, inadvertidamente identifica essa pessoa. Mesmo que o seu ente querido não esteja conectado ao GMA, por favor, não o identifique direta ou indiretamente, apenas no caso de ele decidir usar o site por conta própria.

Você encontrará muitos conselhos neste site, alguns dos quais você seguirá, outros não … mas tudo bem, porque somente você compreende totalmente a sua situação e o que é melhor para você e para as pessoas que você ama. Portanto, aceite o apoio de que precisa e deixe o conselho de que não precisa, porque tudo vem de um lugar carinhoso e estimulante 🙂

Estamos ansiosos para ouvir tudo sobre você!

Tomar cuidado

Equipe de terapia de jogo

PS: Deixe-me apenas lembrá-lo de dar uma olhada em nossa política de privacidade e termos e condições para que você saiba como tudo funciona!

[velvet]

안녕하세요 마마카테

도박 치료 친구 및 가족 포럼에서 대화목록을 시작해주셔서 감사합니다. 이 포럼은 동료들로부터 따뜻함과 이해를 제공할 것입니다.

친구 및 가족 그룹을 자유롭게 사용하십시오. 홈 페이지의 "그룹 시간" 상자를 클릭하면 해당 시간을 찾을 수 있습니다.

친구 및 가족 온라인 그룹에 대해 읽기

이제 자신을 소개했으므로 여기에서 만나는 많은 사람들이 이미 귀하의 첫 소개를 읽었으며 오랜 친구처럼 환영할 것입니다 🙂

당신이 중 하나, 또는 완료 한 사람의 친구 나 가족 회원 인 경우, GMA 주거 프로그램은, 사람이 실수로 식별을 당신이 그룹에서 말을 아무 것도하지 않습니다 여분 알아서, 또는 포럼에하시기 바랍니다. 사랑하는 사람이 GMA와 연결되어 있지 않더라도 사이트를 직접 사용하기로 결정한 경우를 대비하여 직간접적으로 해당 사용자를 식별하지 마십시오.

이 사이트에서 많은 조언을 찾을 수 있습니다. 그 중 일부는 따르게 될 것이고 일부는 그렇지 않을 것입니다…하지만 당신 만이 당신의 상황과 당신과 당신이 사랑하는 사람들에게 가장 좋은 것이 무엇인지 완전히 이해하기 때문에 괜찮습니다. 따라서 필요한 지원을 받고 필요하지 않은 조언은 남겨 두십시오. 모두 돌보고 양육하는 곳에서 오기 때문입니다 🙂

우리는 당신에 대한 모든 소식을 듣기를 기대합니다!

잘 지내세요

도박치료팀

추신: 모든 작동 방식을 알 수 있도록 개인 정보 보호 정책 과 이용 약관을 살펴보도록 할게요!

[velvet]

Hello charlie and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

As well as the forums New Members are invited to join Charles in the New Members Practical Advice Group On Mondays at 21:00 (UK) and Thursday at 19:00(UK)

And on that note….

I’m going to hand you over to our community because I’m sure they will have some words of wisdom for you 🙂

Take care

The Gambling Therapy Team

PS: Let me just remind you to take a look at our privacy policy and terms and conditions so you know how it all works!

[velvet]

Hey Lizbeth
I want to come on line tomorrow and read that you are safe. The urges will pass but the damage you will incur if you give in to them will be with you for months.
Look after yourself
Velvet

[velvet]

Hi Alliessmum

I believe that the right support can make a tremendous difference to compulsive gamblers entering true recoveries but F&F do need direction or they flounder around in the dark and more often than not, get things wrong.

 So well done hubby and well done you helping him to understand a little of what your problem means to you – not an easy thing to do I know. 

Onward and upward, a great positive post

Velvet

[velvet]

HI Monica
I didn’t know what to feel when I read your post on Laura’s thread – pleased that you would think that a post from me could make a difference and sad that you felt overlooked.
I read your whole thread through the other day before I read your post to Laura and it contained so many strands of thought in it that I was bowled over.
This is just one thought I had as a result of reading your thread. Gam-anon uses the same 12 steps as GA except for a slight difference in the wording of the first step so I understand why you resent their implication because I did too. This site wasn’t offering much support to F&F when I needed it but Gam-Anon changed my world and I found working the 12 steps was a good starting block for my recovery. It is interesting to me that my Gam-Anon was mainly matriarchal and the odd male that came in was always very different to the female in what they were prepared to do to improve their own life and relationship. I remember that the Gam-Anon females were not as gentle towards the male as they were with each other but the opposite was true when we were invited in to GA for open evenings. There is more to this male/female divide with the addiction to gamble methinks, than meets the eye!
In the hope that I can give you a little of what you gave me when I read your thread I offer the following. You were considering moving to Kent and I wondered if you have had further thoughts on this. I moved away from the place where I had been unhappy and it was the best thing I ever did – there are no bad memories around me now. It is important, I believe, to face your demons before you move, however, so that they don’t move with you. With that in mind I know you are working your way through the GMA programme and I hope it is all going well for you – I look forward to hearing your progress.
Your positive attitude and readiness to look forward means, I am sure, that GMA have a determined lady working the programme. You have said a few times that you were not feeling better for being gamble-free but this takes time. You had already planted the seed of recovery before you went on the project; GMA will nurture that seed and help it to grow strong but blossoming comes later so please be patient until you can reap your reward.
There are so many new unexplored opportunities in life for you, opportunities that perhaps have previously passed you by. It is fantastic that you now have a job. You deserve a good life and I hope you grab it with both hands.
Velvet

[velvet]

Its ok Mom
Due to teething problems with our new site I couldn’t access the group anyway!
I look forward to ‘seeing’ you on Tuesday

[velvet]

Hi
Unfortunately it seems I cannot connect to the F&F group tonight.
As Charles has said above we hope that normal service will be resumed tomorrow.
I am sorry to those who have tried to access the group – please use the forum and I will look forward to ‘seeing’ you on Tuesday.
Velvet

[velvet]

Hi Emkae
Options are limited when an active CG will not get help.
You feel that if you stay you will be miserable and yet you love him – have you downloaded the 20-questions for him and if so what was his reaction? Did you mention our anonymous Helpline which he can contact without making the effort to go and see someone?
If you wanted to suggest that he comes on this site and you are worried that he will see your thread then you can always ask our helpline to make your thread invisible – it doesn’t go away. If this is your decision, I hope you will use the groups so that you can get continued support.
Are you strong enough to ask him to leave and do you have family support if this is what you decide to do?
If your husband does not get help then your future is in your hands and I cannot tell you what to do – only you can make such decisions. I know he can change but he has to want to do so. In my opinion, he should prove to you that he is committed by making positive moves towards support because words are not enough.
Please keep posting; having appeared in this forum you are in the thoughts of all those who are facing similar decisions; sharing and reading their posts will give you the strength to do whatever you decide to do.
Velvet

[velvet]

For Momchait Beklager at jeg glemte å ta dette opp da jeg var ferdig i går kveld – sannsynligvis på grunn av snøen!

[velvet]

Para Momchait Desculpe, eu esqueci de trazer isso à tona quando terminei ontem à noite – provavelmente devido à neve!

[velvet]

Momchait를 위해 죄송합니다. 어젯밤에 끝내고 이것을 가져오는 것을 잊었습니다. 아마도 눈 때문일 것입니다!

[velvet]

Para Momchait Lo siento, olvidé mencionar esto cuando terminé anoche, ¡probablemente debido a la nieve!

[velvet]

Για το Momchait Συγγνώμη ξέχασα να το αναφέρω όταν τελείωσα χθες το βράδυ – πιθανότατα λόγω του χιονιού!

[velvet]

मोमचैट के लिए क्षमा करें, जब मैं कल रात समाप्त कर चुका था तो मैं इसे लाना भूल गया था – शायद बर्फ के कारण!

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