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I see it’s been months since your post , I wonder did you get help . I’m in a similar situation , and just revealed to my husband that I have a problem . My insurance is about to be cancelled my car note unpaid , I told my landlord if pay next paycheck . All I bought was groceries then I spent the rest of both my husband and my paycheck . I make good money too , nothing to show last year we moved from Maryland to Florida when I got us evicted for not paying rent . I read casinos were illegal here . Come to find out tribal casinos are not and. Ow I drive about 4 hrs each way to give up all my money , I won a lot , but I give it all back . The casino always makes sure I have a free room and comp dollars for food . I hope I can stay away , but I’m already thinking of how I can sneak back now that I’ve confessed to my husband and 16 he old daughter I have a problem , I even told him I’ve been lying and telling g him I’ve been at work and driving to the casino instead . This is easy because I work 12 hr shifts overnight as a nurse and he works during the day . So while he is asleep I’m gambling and while he is at work I come home before he gets home . Too easy . So easy that I’m thinking about it right now . Except my bank account is negative and I gave him all the cash we had yesterday for safe keeping when I confessed . I swear if it weren’t for that I’d probably say i was picking up an extra shift and be on that drive . I always think I’m going to leave with enough money to fix out problems . He thinks we have not money because I’ve been paying an 1100 student loan payment , which I haven’t paid in 2 years input it in deferment which ended in February so there’s that too …
даже после того, как вчера сказала мужу, что я потратила весь наш банковский счет за один уик-энд. И что я солгал ему несколько раз, говоря ему, что я был на работе, когда я действительно был в казино, я все еще думаю, что смогу возместить свои потери в следующий раз, когда мне заплатят
even after telling my husband yesterday that I spent our entire bank account in one weekend . And that I’ve lied to him multiple times telling him I was at work when I was really at the casino , I still keep thinking that I can recoup my losses next time I get paid
čak i nakon što sam mužu jučer rekla da sam cijeli naš bankovni račun potrošila u jednom vikendu. I da sam mu više puta lagao govoreći da sam bio na poslu dok sam stvarno bio u kasinu, i dalje mislim da mogu nadoknaditi svoje gubitke sljedeći put kad mi plate
mesmo depois de dizer ontem ao meu marido que gastei toda a nossa conta bancária em um fim de semana. E que já menti várias vezes para ele dizendo que estava no trabalho, quando na verdade estava no cassino, ainda continuo pensando que posso recuperar minhas perdas na próxima vez que for pago
I’m reading your post and I could have written it myself . The only difference is I’ve just revealed my problem to my naive husband . I tried to tell him like a year ago , but he told me that I didn’t have a gambling problem , I had a I want money problem . But most of the money problems were caused by my gambling . I told him yesterday after spending my entire paycheck and then all the money I won while at the casino . Spending my car note money , my insurance money , all my money . I didn’t know how to cover it up this time . Usually I borrow , I’m out of people. To borrow from . So I broke down , when my daughter asked me what we were going to do for Easter , and I realized I had forgot and spent all the money . My daughter is 16 , I told her some of my issue then , I wish I hadn’t , but of all the people , she is the one I feel most accountable to . She has her own issues with depression and anxiety and I don’t want to let her down . I pray I can stop , but my mind keeps wandering to the slot machines .
Estou lendo sua postagem e poderia ter escrito sozinho. A única diferença é que acabei de revelar meu problema ao meu marido ingênuo. Tentei dizer a ele há um ano, mas ele me disse que eu não tinha problemas com jogos de azar, mas sim com "quero dinheiro". Mas a maioria dos problemas de dinheiro foram causados por meu jogo. Eu disse a ele ontem, depois de gastar todo o meu salário e todo o dinheiro que ganhei enquanto estava no cassino. Gastando o dinheiro do meu carro, meu dinheiro do seguro, todo o meu dinheiro. Eu não sabia como encobrir dessa vez. Normalmente eu peço emprestado, estou sem gente. Para pedir emprestado. Então, desabei quando minha filha me perguntou o que íamos fazer na Páscoa, e percebi que havia esquecido e gasto todo o dinheiro. Minha filha tem 16 anos, contei a ela um pouco do meu problema na época, gostaria de não ter contado, mas, de todas as pessoas, ela é aquela por quem me sinto mais responsável. Ela tem seus próprios problemas de depressão e ansiedade e não quero decepcioná-la. Rezo para poder parar, mas minha mente continua vagando para as máquinas caça-níqueis.
Jag läser ditt inlägg och jag hade kunnat skriva det själv. Den enda skillnaden är att jag just avslöjat mitt problem för min naiva man. Jag försökte berätta för honom som för ett år sedan, men han sa till mig att jag inte hade ett spelproblem, jag hade ett problem med jag vill ha pengar. Men de flesta pengaproblemen orsakades av mitt spelande. Jag berättade för honom igår efter att ha spenderat hela min lönecheck och sedan alla de pengar jag vann på kasinot. Att spendera min bil notera pengar, mina försäkringspengar, alla mina pengar. Jag visste inte hur jag skulle dölja den här gången. Vanligtvis lånar jag, jag har slut på folk. Att låna av. Så jag bröt ihop, när min dotter frågade mig vad vi skulle göra till påsk, och jag insåg att jag hade glömt och spenderat alla pengarna. Min dotter är 16, jag berättade för henne en del av mitt problem då, jag önskar att jag inte hade gjort det, men av alla människor är det den jag känner mig mest ansvarig för. Hon har sina egna problem med depression och ångest och jag vill inte svika henne. Jag ber att jag kan sluta, men mitt sinne fortsätter att vandra till spelautomaterna.
Ma loen teie postitust ja oleksin võinud selle ise kirjutada. Ainus erinevus on see, et olen just oma naiivsele mehele oma probleemi avaldanud. Üritasin talle öelda nagu aasta tagasi, kuid ta ütles mulle, et mul pole hasartmänguprobleeme, vaid mul on probleem, mida ma tahan raha saada. Kuid enamiku rahaprobleeme põhjustasid minu hasartmängud. Ütlesin talle eile pärast kogu palgakulu kulutamist ja seejärel kogu raha, mille kasiinos olles võitsin. Kulutan oma rahatähe raha, kindlustusraha, kogu oma raha. Ma ei teadnud, kuidas seda seekord varjata. Tavaliselt laenan, olen inimestest väljas. Laenamiseks. Nii et ma murdusin, kui mu tütar küsis minult, mida me lihavõttepühadeks teeme, ja ma mõistsin, et olin kogu raha unustanud ja kulutanud. Minu tütar on 16 -aastane, rääkisin talle siis mõningatest oma probleemidest, ma soovin, et ma poleks seda teinud, aga kõigi inimeste seas tunnen ma tema ees kõige rohkem vastutust. Tal on oma probleemid depressiooni ja ärevusega ning ma ei taha teda alt vedada. Ma palun, et saaksin peatuda, kuid mu mõte rändab mänguautomaatide juurde.
Я читаю твой пост и мог бы написать сам. Единственная разница в том, что я только что рассказала о своей проблеме своему наивному мужу. Я пытался сказать ему, как год назад, но он сказал мне, что у меня не было проблемы с азартными играми, у меня была проблема с деньгами. Но большинство проблем с деньгами было вызвано моей игрой. Я сказал ему вчера, потратив всю свою зарплату, а затем все деньги, которые я выиграл в казино. Я трачу деньги на машину, страховку, все свои деньги. На этот раз я не знала, как это скрыть. Обычно беру взаймы, у меня нет людей. Чтобы заимствовать из. Я сломался, когда моя дочь спросила меня, что мы собираемся делать на Пасху, и я понял, что забыл, и потратил все деньги. Моей дочери 16, я тогда рассказал ей о некоторых своих проблемах, я бы хотел, чтобы не было, но из всех людей я чувствую себя наиболее ответственным за нее. У нее свои проблемы с депрессией и тревогой, и я не хочу ее подвести. Я молюсь, чтобы я мог остановиться, но я все время думаю об игровых автоматах.