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hi nomore56!!!!
Yes my hb admits he is a cg. I asked him to leave. He left without a fight . Doesnt want to hurt me. Yes I do have financial support and will be ok. But, a few of my close relatives do not agree with how I am handling the situation with my husband. They are quick to give their opinions /input– which is anything but positive. but I don’t care what they think because I have to do what Is best for me and my family. So for now I am sticking to my guns and not giving up .
thanks for your response.

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Hi Ell! I’m new to this site and have read your thread. I’m soo very proud of you for standing up to the addiction and fighting for what you believe in. You are truly amazing. Although the gambling addiction is very powerful, it seems to me that the bond of love and marriage that you and your husband share is no match. Hands down — you are both winners . although the scars are still present, they will fade. Wish you both luck

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thanks janey1. I did read the privacy policy and terms and agreements of this site. will adhere to the fullest.

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not sure if I am replying right. not good with computers. just wanted o say thanks . soo glad you replied to my post. my emotions have been all over he place most of the day. I miss my hb soo much. He moved out– not me. this is my home . it was mine prior to us getting married.
Tonight is the first night he is not sleeping at home. he has called/text me several *****. I am answering him because I dont want him to think I’m abandoning him. I did tell him that I found a psychiatrist and will call tomorrow to make him an appointment . he is agreeing to go. He also an appointment Thursday with a counselor ( through the parish ) . We will see what happens. IM not familiar with counselors and
psychiatrist o I really hope they can help him.
This is really heartbreaking, but I will stick to my guns because he truly seems to be responding. For the first time in 13 years I feel like I got his attention. The counselor has not returned my call to set up an appointment for myself. I will work on that tomorrow for sure. it’s back to work for me tomorrow — that will keep me busy
Again thanks for responding.

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so sorry for you. just separated from my husband of 13 years. it’s really hard. i cry all the time. im hoping this will give him an incentive to quit gambling. didn’t know what else to do. I’m tired of the excuses— the same excuses ur husband uses. I just wish I would have done this a long time ago cuz now I’m 14 years older and it’s really scarey to be alone. I hate it.

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so sorry for you. just separated from my husband of 13 years. it’s really hard. i cry all the time. im hoping this will give him an incentive to quit gambling. didn’t know what else to do. I’m tired of the excuses— the same excuses ur husband uses. I just wish I would have done this a long time ago cuz now I’m 14 years older and it’s really scarey to be alone. I hate it.

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