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How long has it affected your life , if you don’t mind me asking and how are you doing

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The saddest thing is I’m sure he loves me as much as I love him , but the gambling messed it all and he ran away from his shame and guilt rather than address it , I hope in years to come he realises , it’s easier to run especially with a woman offering it in a plate , but it doesn’t and will never make it right , I’m trying to focus on me and my life , the loneliness has been awful but I work shifts at hospital and trying to plan eve with friends and family , and hopefully volunteering at soup kitchen x

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Thank you Charles , I’m glad that you managed to come threw the other end if this , and helping others , so much has happened , I worry about him , and he says he loves her and maybe she will be reason he stops , but it’s left it’s. Ark on me

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Thank you x

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Sorry stuff came up in wrong order , but I really really need advice , feel like I’m going mad

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Oh and wen I found out about new girlfriend obviously I was mad with heartache and I private messages her on facebook , 2weeks later she tried to get me fired from work , saying I was harassing and threatening her , one message in a fit of despair , I have never heard of such a thing and find that very very strange and upsetting , I do look at things from other peoples view and I could never have done that , I’d have realised her upset and maybe told him to have a word , but to do that to me wen my life was falling apart already , I came close to ending things as u couldn’t take the pain anymore , so to kick someone wen there down is without words

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Thank you velvet for replying ,although I have lot of friends and family , they are brilliant and I don’t no what I would’ve done with them ,I lot has happened since my last post , I actually felt bit defensive for him re-your reply , he’s not a bad man , just has an illness and as much as it breaks my heart I can totally understand why he met someone else, he has no friends , family that aren’t close,and obviously he don’t want them to no , he feels ashamed and I basically turned my back an couldn’t be inter mate with him anymore , he left and feels he’s ruined his life an obviously he needs the love an support of someone , but I do feel he’s not thinking straight about his life , and as far as I’m aware he thinks he can stop by himself , I hope I’m wrong and he has sort help , but it’s been 5months now and I worry about him as much today as I have done for last 4years , obviously for myself I’m devastated but I so want him to be happy and sort his life out , I wish it had been with me , but I can’t seem to let go

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Hi I’m new and I was happy with my ex for 11years , until he started gambling 4years ago, I tried to be supportive , but in the end we weren’t even sleeping together , living separate lives , and he left me , and had already met a new girlfriend before he left , although 6weeks after he came and asked for help as he had wated another 10 thousand and didn’t no which way to turn , I feel so devastated that I pushed him into the arms of another and feel I tried so hard to help him and he’s left and is happy with new woman and I’m alone and still love and worry about hum , it’s driving me crazy , help xx

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