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  • in reply to: Life in the stop lane #28109
    theend
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    Forget about what people think. The medications are necessary but are not enough. Your mother on the other hand is probably shocked and doesnt want to believe this, which is natural for a mother. She simply wants to see you well off. Call her, or bstter yet if she is not that far away go there and have a conversation. Tell her of your problema, since when you have this problem. tell her you are sorry and that you will make all this okay again.
    My mother cried when i told her, and yours will probably too, but it is natural, you have to promise yourself to never seeing your mother like that again. The most important thing you should do is come clean. With your family and friends and your relatives. This is the hardest part, but a key element in recovery. Your family needs to know, so that they can keep an eye on you. So that they can check on you. You need to draft a payment plan to pay off your debts (it is impossible to be addicted and not having debt). In order to do this, you will have to call your friends or family whom you owe money. Tell them what the problem is. Unless they are loan sharks, when it’ll become very difficult. But, if they are friends or family, then they will understand, they will cooperate and you will be able to pay them back, without feeling the pressure which frequently is the cause of relapse. Stick to it man, better days are ahead.

    in reply to: Life in the stop lane #28103
    theend
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    Dear The.End

    We share the same name here, and we share much more than that. I have been and am in a terible position myself. All you need is love and come clean. Tell a dear friend of yours your problem. To the deeepest details, so you have someone to talk to in real life. Someone who understands your struggle and someone who will go out with you whenever you need them because nobody knows the struggle as you and I, unless you tell thorough details.

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