[ripvanleonard]

Hi mate, glad you made it. Coach has my number, so give me a bell whenever you can.

[ripvanleonard]

I knew it would be tough coming back after 14 weeks away. Generally it has been better than I expected. Had a night out on Friday with my wife, which was great. Unfortunately I seem to be trying to hard. I am keen to help with housework and cooking. My wife is interpreting this as me invading her territory. I am sure I was hands on before gambling got hold of me. Just need to be mindful and keep talking things through.

[ripvanleonard]

Attended ex residents group yesterday. One attendee was in meltdown. Only left in December. Apparently he relapsed in relapse prevention. Recovery is fragile.

[ripvanleonard]

Hi LAH, I was in a similar position before going to the GMA program. As hard as it was, I handed myself in. It went heavily in my favour. Although I have a criminal record now, I also have peace of mind. It was more stressful waiting to be discovered. At least by handing myself in I felt like I was taking control and accepting the consequences.

[ripvanleonard]

Since leaving GMA on July 10th, I have had a constructive few days. I made an apology to a neighbour, who I had alienated through my poor behaviour, attended several school social events, been out for a few drinks with a new acquaintance, spent an afternoon with an old friend, self excluded from several casinos and cooked for my family.
I think I am following the GMA way. I have continued to budget, been honest and open and I have expressed my feelings and been keen to listen to my wife’s feelings and concerns.
This week I am seeing my probation officer and visiting the local CAB about a debt recovery order. Just like in GMA, I am taking things slowly; making realistic and achievable plans.
So far so good.

[ripvanleonard]

Kids sports day today, helping with school trip
tomorrow, meeting an old friend tomorrow and
then drinks with a pal on Friday. Next week will
be about making some broad plans, so will be
in the library researching training courses etc.
Slow and steady…..

[ripvanleonard]

What an amazing welcome from my wife and kids. So glad I made the decision to come home and stay. I have a great support network and am looking forward to rebuilding a happy family life.

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