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You are right neva, why mess with what works? I plan to leave her in control of finances until we both decide (and counsellors) that it is a good first step!
In regards to the house, it is still being built, and we should be in it by the end of July! It has an unfinished basement, so I will have many projects over the next few months. We were lucky to time it right and get a 3% interest rate, so that makes us very happy. We are also moving out of the city which is advantageous that vlt’s aren’t practically on every street corner. All is good on that front!

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***** Neva, thank you for creating this thread and reading it helps me a ton! I am a CG who has stayed clean now for 3 weeks! I am coming back here knowing that I need to get help, and get past the thought of fixing it on my own. We all know that doesn’t work!
Your thread resonates because my wife and I have bought our first house. The fact we bought a house is shocking, as her help and enforcing limitations (no cash, etc) has made the purchase possible. God knows that I am blessed to have her!
Congrats on staying clean and keep sharing!

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