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Stay strong, you are consciously working to get your life back and sooner than later you will.

you got this.
positive vibes going your way.

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Hi Rachel
I can see my story coincide with yours in the fact that controlling an addiction is not the same as ending it.

The symptoms of doing something self-destructing are still present. And so one lives a shitty existence despite cutting your losses. Or so we think. Cutting losses means stopping forever. And even then, you are not cutting losses, you are cutting the symptoms. That is the goal. To end the symptoms and not the losses. This is where we should be focusing on. Remember, you haven’t lost money, you have invested in losing your happiness. Start investing in regaining your happiness. Our minds are clever and deceive us. We believe the real pain is the money, but it’s not. It’s continuing to self-destruct. Why do we self-destruct? It’s hard to accept that we decided to self-destruct. And so we fixate on the money we’ve lost and convince ourselves that THAT is the real issue. Loving yourself truly, is like peeling the layers of a rainbow. Glowing is a process, and quite an extraordinary one when you actively drench yourself in it. Deep inside you are happy. You’ve always been. You’ve just never accepted it. And if you don’t believe in it, how can you act on it?

Take care, take control.

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