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Отново аз, знаете, човекът, който получава намерение да говори грубо, а не меко от време на време. Не съм тук, за да създавам врагове, които никога не са били моите намерения, и Murrs, така или иначе го знаете. Просто тези, които чувстват, че съм бил прекален към теб или съм бил трол, да, каквито и хора. Това е последният ми пост така или иначе Murrs, както каза администраторът, това е вашата тема и трябва да остане така. Прочетох всички отговори и продължавам да следя вашето пътуване, но вие го казвате сами. Единствената причина да не залагате е, че нямате нула пари или кредит. Все още чувствам, че мислиш, че можеш да спечелиш достатъчно, за да се измъкнеш от тази бъркотия и ще продължиш да го правиш или ще умреш опитвайки се (хора с реч). Казано е преди, а не само аз, което прави промяна, но докато не дадете на някой, на когото имате доверие, това е приятелката ви или кученцето (въпреки че му дължите пари в брой, което може да не е добра идея), но някой, когото познавате и се доверете и им дайте своите банкови карти, така че да имате нулев шанс да се опитате да залагате с надеждата да спечелите тези пари обратно. Докато не сте на този етап, вие знаете и аз знам, че ще играете завинаги. Но само вие можете да признаете кога е подходящият час, никой друг. Аз не съм лош човек, никога не съм бил и ако някой знае какъв е животът ми в момента, мога да гарантирам, че всички ще вземете обратно това, което мислите за мен. Имах късмет, уау късмет, да, но добре, имах 41 -годишна зависимост и в продължение на 40 години и 364 дни казах: не, нямах зависимост. Мърс, знаете, че имате тази зависимост и знаете, че докато не предадете финансите си за дълъг период от време, може би с години, винаги ще бъдете отново този риск и няма да има значение, ако отидете отново 2 години чисти, това изкушение ще Винаги бъди там. Просто трябва да признаете, че Murrs и парите НЕ вървят ръка за ръка и НИКОГА не трябва да вървят заедно. Ето как победи това приятелю. Мърс, това е човече. Пожелавам ви цялата любов на света момчета и ви желая целия късмет на света, за да си върнете живота и завинаги. Поставете черта под днес и когато се събудите на следващия ден, започнете да живеете живота си отново, но само ако направите това, което трябва да направите. Бъдете в безопасност Murrs и всеки друг, който чете тази тема. Всички имате големи сърца ♥ ️ Плаза напусна сградата.
Ik weer, je weet wel, de man die wordt bekritiseerd omdat hij keer op keer hard spreekt in plaats van zacht zacht. Ik ben hier niet om vijanden te maken dat was nooit mijn bedoeling en Murrs, dat weet je toch. Het zijn alleen degenen die vinden dat ik te hard voor je was of dat ik een trol was, ja welke mensen dan ook. Het is sowieso mijn laatste post Murrs, zoals admin al zei, dit is jouw topic en dat zou zo moeten blijven. Ik lees wel alle reacties en volg je reis nog steeds, maar je zegt het zelf. De enige reden waarom u niet gokt, is omdat u geen contant geld of krediet heeft. Ik heb nog steeds het gevoel dat je denkt dat je genoeg kunt winnen om uit deze puinhoop te komen en dat zal blijven doen of sterven terwijl je probeert (mensen met beeldspraak). Het is al eerder gezegd en niet alleen door mij, wat een verandering teweegbrengt, maar totdat je iemand geeft die je vertrouwt, of dat nu je vriendin of puppy-man is (hoewel je hem geld schuldig bent, is dat misschien geen goed idee), maar iemand die je kent en vertrouw en geef ze uw bankkaarten, zodat u geen enkele kans heeft om te proberen te gokken in de hoop dit geld terug te winnen. Totdat je in dat stadium bent, weet je en ik weet, zul je voor altijd gokken. Maar alleen jij kunt toegeven wanneer die tijd rijp is, niemand anders. Ik ben geen slechterik, dat ben ik nooit geweest en als iemand zou weten hoe mijn leven er momenteel uitziet, kan ik garanderen dat jullie allemaal terugnemen wat je van me denkt. Ik had geluk, wauw geluk, ja, maar oké, ik had een verslaving van 41 jaar en gedurende 40 jaar en 364 dagen zei ik, nee, ik had geen verslaving. Murrs, je weet dat je die verslaving hebt en je weet dat totdat je je financiën voor een lange periode misschien wel jaren overdraagt, je altijd weer dat risico zult lopen en het maakt niet uit of je weer 2 jaar clean gaat, die verleiding zal verdwijnen Er altijd zijn. Je moet gewoon toegeven dat Murrs en geld NIET hand in hand gaan en NOOIT meer samen mogen gaan. Zo heb je dit verslagen, mijn vriend. Murrs, dit is het man. Ik wens je alle liefde van de wereld kerel en ik wens je alle geluk van de wereld om je leven terug en voor altijd te krijgen. Zet een streep onder vandaag en als je de volgende dag wakker wordt, begin je leven weer te leven, maar alleen als je doet wat je moet doen. Blijf veilig Murrs en iedereen die deze thread leest. Jullie hebben allemaal een groot hart ️ Plaza heeft het gebouw verlaten.
Me again, you know, the guy who gets slated for speaking harsh instead of the softly softly time after time.
I’m not here to make enemies that was never my intention and Murrs, you know that anyway. It’s just those that feel I was being to hard on you or I was a troll, yeah whatever people. It’s my last post anyway Murrs, like admin said, this is your thread and it should remain that way.I do read all the replies and I do still follow your journey, but you say it yourself. The only reason you are not gambling is because you have zero cash or credit. I still feel, you think you can win enough to get out of this mess and will continue to do so or die trying (figure of speech people). It’s been said before and not by just me, which makes a change, but until you give someone you trust, be that your girlfriend, or puppy guy (although you owing him cash that might not be a good idea), but someone you know and trust and give them your bank cards, so you have zero chance of trying to gamble hoping to win this cash back. Until you are at that stage, you know and I know, you will forever gamble. But only you can admit when that time is right, no one else.
I ain’t a bad guy, I never was and if anyone knew what my life is currently like, I can guarantee you’d all take back what you think of me. I was lucky, wow lucky, yeah right but ok, I had a 41 yr addiction and for 40 yrs & 364 days I said, no I did not have an addiction. Murrs, you know you have that addiction and you know until you hand over your finances for a long period of time maybe for years, you will always be that risk again and it will not matter if you go 2 yrs clean again, that temptation will ALWAYS be there. You’ve just got to admit that Murrs and money do NOT go hand in hand and should NEVER again go together. That’s how you beat this my friend.
Murrs, this is it man. I wish you all the love in the world fella & I wish you all the luck in the world in getting your life back and for good. Put a line under today and when you wake up the next day, start to live your life again but only if you do what you gotta do.
Stay Safe Murrs & anyone else who reads this thread. You all have big hearts ♥️
Plaza has left da building.
@ Мег. Знам какво съм написал и в нито един момент не съм казал, че имам проблеми със спортните залагания. Това не е моята зависимост, слот машините са моята зависимост. Някои ще кажат, но все още е хазарт, много вярно, но като се има предвид, аз съм в леглото 23,5 часа на ден, всеки ден, спя до 16 часа на ден всеки ден. Вземете достатъчно обезболяващи, за да нокаутирате носорог, не мога да се движа, без да изкрещя от болка, аз съм такъв от 2009 г., след като гръбната операция отиде Цици, оставяйки ме в състоянието, в което се озовах днес. Не пийте, не употребявайте наркотици, не пушете, загубих цялото си сексуално влечение поради лекарствата и не докоснах партньора си в магарета (години). Мога да изброя всички страхотни странични ефекти, с които трябва да живея всеки ден, така че ще бъда прокълнат, ако някога ще се откажа от спортните си залагания, които са или никога не са били проблем. Играл съм и покер през последните 20 години, въпреки че трябваше да се откажа от това поради постоянното заспиване. Това никога не е било проблем с хазарта и никога няма да бъде. Знам границите си, само жалко ми отне 41 години, за да разбера най -накрая границите си, когато става въпрос за слотове. Бих могъл да продължа да ви разказвам всичко за живота си и ще се учудите как все още не съм надминал себе си. Така че знам всичко за лошия късмет и лошата ръка, която ми беше раздадена в живота, и защо започнах да играя на слотове преди 41 години (всъщност преди 43 години сега, но не през последните две години). Можете дори да се подиграете на моята ситуация и аз нямах да мигна клепач. Така е и не мога да го променя. Мърс знае, че нямам предвид нищо лошо и благодарение на другите хора, които разбират това, което съм/се опитвах да направя. Оценява се. Определено последната публикация, заспах два пъти като напиша това. Плаза
@ Meg. Ik weet wat ik heb geschreven en op geen enkel moment heb ik gezegd dat ik problemen heb met sportweddenschappen. Dat is niet mijn verslaving, gokautomaten zijn mijn verslaving. Sommigen zullen zeggen, maar het is nog steeds gokken, heel waar, maar als je bedenkt, lig ik elke dag 23,5 uur in bed, elke dag slaap ik tot 16 uur per dag. Neem genoeg pijnmedicatie om een neushoorn knock-out te slaan, kan niet bewegen zonder het uit te schreeuwen van de pijn, ik ben zo sinds 2009 nadat een back-op ging. Drink niet, gebruik geen drugs, rook niet, verloor al mijn zin in seks door de medicatie en heb mijn partner in ezels niet aangeraakt (jaren) & ik zou alle geweldige bijwerkingen kunnen opsommen waarmee ik moet leven op een van dag tot dag, dus ik zal verdoemd worden als ik ooit mijn sportweddenschappen opgeef, wat wel of nooit een probleem is geweest. Ik heb de afgelopen 20 jaar ook poker gespeeld, hoewel ik dat moest opgeven omdat ik constant in slaap viel. Dat was nooit een gokprobleem en zal dat ook nooit worden. Ik ken mijn limieten, het is alleen jammer dat het me 41 jaar heeft gekost om eindelijk mijn limieten te kennen als het op slots aankwam. Ik zou kunnen doorgaan en je alles over mijn leven vertellen en je zou versteld staan hoe ik mezelf nog nooit heb overtroffen. Dus ik weet alles over pech en de slechte hand die ik in mijn leven kreeg en waarom ik 41 jaar geleden begon met het spelen van slots (nu 43 jaar geleden eigenlijk, maar de laatste twee jaar niet). Je zou zelfs de spot kunnen drijven met mijn situatie en ik zou geen oog dichtknijpen. Het is wat het is en daar kan ik niets aan veranderen. Murrs weet dat ik hem geen kwaad bedoel en dankzij de andere piepers die snappen wat ik probeer te doen. Het wordt gewaardeerd. Absoluut de laatste post, ik ben twee keer in slaap gevallen toen ik dit typte. Plein
@ Meg.
I know what I wrote and at no point have I said I have problems with sports betting. That is not my addiction, slot machines are my addiction. Some will say but it’s still gambling, very true, but considering, I am in bed 23.5 hrs a day, everyday, sleep up to 16 hrs a day everyday. Take enough pain medication to knock out a rhino, can not move without screaming out in pain, I have been like this since 2009 after a back op went Tits up leaving me in the state I find myself today. Do not drink, do not do drugs, do not smoke, lost all my sex drive due to the medication and have not touched my partner in donkeys (years) & I could list all the great side effects that I have to live with on a day to day basis, So,I will be dammed if I am ever going to give up my sports betting which is or has never been a problem.
I have also played poker for the last 20 years, although I had to give that up due to falling asleep constantly. That was never a gambling problem and never will be either. I know my limits, it’s just a pity it took me 41 years to finally know my limits when it came to slots.I could go on and tell you all about my life and you’d be amazed how I’ve never topped myself yet. So I know all about bad luck and the bad hand I was dealt in life and why I started playing slots 41 years ago (43 yrs ago actually now, but not for the last two years). You could even mock my situation and I would not bat an eyelid. It is what it is and I can’t change that. Murrs knows I mean him no harm and thanks to the other peeps who get what I am/was trying to do. It’s appreciated.
Definitely last post, I’ve fell asleep twice typing this.
Plaza
@Steph40 Als dat jouw mening over mij is, dan is dat maar zo. Maar ik weet 100% dat ik een goed mens ben. Ik ben ook niet aan het trollen of onaardig zijn, het is om te proberen iemand weer op het goede spoor te krijgen met echte woorden. Al deze handige pandy-opmerkingen vertellen Murrs dat hij het geweldig doet en de rest, terwijl hij dat niet is (naar mijn mening) duidelijk niet werkt. Ik vertel de dingen slechts hoe ze werkelijk zijn. Ik gebruik twitch en kijk hoe peeps de slots met een reden spelen en die reden is om me eraan te herinneren dat het spelen van de slots nooit zal winnen en het werkt voor jou. Ik ben waarschijnlijk al langer verslaafd aan gokautomaten dan jij en in slechts 5 dagen heb ik mijn tweejarig jubileum gevierd. Maar als ik faalde en dat hier zou zeggen, zou ik niet van streek raken door iemand die me harde waarheden zou vertellen. Er is een eeuwenoud gezegde, geef niet wat je zelf niet kunt nemen, dat ben ik en als iemand zou zeggen dat ik een verspilling van ruimte was om terug te gaan op een gokautomaat, dan zou ik het met hen eens zijn. Ik zou er zeker niet door van streek zijn, want aan het eind van de dag zijn we hier allemaal met een reden en als we de reis van Murrs lezen, zegt niemand iets sterkers dan we allemaal bij jou zijn. Het werkt duidelijk niet, dus waarom niet wat eerlijke waarheden? Ik weet zeker dat ik niet de enige kan zijn die denkt dat hij het beter kan en ik weet zeker dat Murrs weet dat hij het beter kan. Ik ben hier niet om conflicten te veroorzaken of iemand te trollen, zoals ik al zei, we zijn hier allemaal met een reden en we hebben allemaal hetzelfde doel. Als mijn opmerkingen je van streek maken, was dat niet mijn bedoeling, maar ik blijf bij wat ik schreef en als de admin het te veel vindt, het zij zo, het was een genoegen in de afgelopen twee jaar. Murrs weet wat hij moet doen en een schop onder zijn kont is misschien wat hij nodig heeft en ik zou de eerste zijn om hem te feliciteren als hij eenmaal van deze verslaving af is. Als je denkt dat ik dat allemaal verzonnen heb, dan heb je het mis. Alles wat ik deed was hetzelfde doen als een Dr Now doet op een TLC-programma genaamd 600Lbs. Als niemand het weet, gaat het over piepers die meer dan 600 pond wegen en die naar Dr Now gaan om een afslankoperatie te ondergaan via een soort maagband, maar om te bewijzen dat ze bereid zijn om op dieet te gaan, moeten ze ongeveer 80 pond verliezen in twee maanden. Bijna alle gevallen verliezen in de eerste twee maanden niets of slechts een paar kilo. Dr Now geeft ze dan een goed gesprek met enkele sterke woorden en het werkt voor ongeveer 95% van de piepers. Met andere woorden, ik heb het wiel niet uitgevonden met mijn opmerkingen…….. Stay Safe y'all & Murrs, je weet wat je moet doen maat, dus laten we het doen Huh. Tot ziens aan de andere kant Plaza
If that’s your opinion of me, so be it. But I know 100% I am a good person. I am also not trolling or being unkind, it’s to try and get someone back on track with true words. All this handy pandy remarks telling Murrs he’s doing great and the rest of it, when he is not (in my opinion) is obviously not working. I am mearly telling things how they actually are.
I use twitch and watch peeps play the slots for a reason and that reason is to remind me, that playing the slots is never going to win and it works for you me. I’ve probably been a slot machine addict longer than you’ve been alive and in just 5 days I hit my two year anniversary. But if I failed and said so on here, I would not get upset by someone telling me some hard truths. There’s a an age old saying, do not give what you can not take yourself, that is me and if someone said I was a waste of space for going back on a slot machine, then I would agree with them. I certainly wouldn’t bet upset by it because at the end of the day, we are all on here for a reason and reading through Murrs journey, no one says anything stronger than we are all with you. It’s clearly not working, so why not some honest truths? I am sure I can not be the only one who thinks he could do better and I’m sure Murrs knows he can do better.
I am not here to cause conflict or troll anyone, like I said, we are all here for a reason and we all have the same goal. If my comments upset you, it was not my intention, but I stand by what I wrote and if admin thinks it’s to much, so be it, it was a pleasure over the last two years.
Murrs knows what he’s got to do and a kick up the backside might be what he needs and I’d be the first to congratulate him once he’s kicked this addiction.
If you think I made all that up then you would be wrong. All I did was do the same thing a Dr Now does on a TLC Programme called 600Lbs. If no one knows, it’s about peeps who weigh over 600Lbs and they go to Dr Now to get weight loss surgery via gastric band of sorts, but in order to prove they are willing to diet, they have to lose around 80Lbs over two months. Almost all cases in the first two months, lose either nothing or just a few pounds. Dr Now then gives them a good talking to with some strong words and it works for about 95% of the peeps. In other words, I did not invent the wheel with my remarks……..
Stay Safe y’all & Murrs, you know what you gotta do mate, so let’s do it Huh.
See ya on the other side
Plaza
@Steph40 Ако това е твоето мнение за мен, така да бъде. Но знам, че на 100% съм добър човек. Аз също не троля или не съм любезен, това е да се опитам да върна някого на път с истински думи. Всички тези удобни реплики за бонбони, казващи на Мърс, че се справя отлично, а останалата част, когато не е (според мен) очевидно не работи. Аз тъпо казвам на нещата какви са всъщност. Използвам twitch and watch peeps да играят на слотове по някаква причина и тази причина е да ми напомня, че играта на слотове никога няма да спечели и при мен работи. Вероятно съм бил пристрастен към слот машините по -дълго, отколкото си жив, и само за 5 дни навърших двугодишната си годишнина. Но ако се проваля и казвам така тук, нямаше да се разстроя, ако някой ми каже някои трудни истини. Има една вековна поговорка, не давайте това, което не можете да вземете сами, това съм аз и ако някой каже, че съм загубил място за връщане на слот машина, тогава бих се съгласил с тях. Със сигурност не бих се обзаложил от това, защото в края на деня всички сме тук по някаква причина и четейки пътешествието на Murrs, никой не казва нищо по -силно от това, че всички сме с вас. Очевидно не работи, така че защо не и някои честни истини? Сигурен съм, че не мога да бъда единственият, който мисли, че би могъл да се справи по -добре и съм сигурен, че Мърс знае, че може и по -добре. Не съм тук, за да предизвикам конфликт или да троля някого, както казах, всички сме тук по някаква причина и всички имаме една и съща цел. Ако коментарите ми ви разстроиха, това не беше моето намерение, но аз оставам при написаното и ако администраторът смята, че е прекалено много, нека бъде така, за мен беше удоволствие през последните две години. Мърс знае какво трябва да направи и ритник в задната част може да е това, от което се нуждае, и аз ще бъда първият, който ще го поздрави, след като изхвърли тази зависимост. Ако мислите, че съм измислил всичко това, ще сгрешите. Всичко, което направих, беше да направя същото, което д -р Now прави по програма TLC, наречена 600Lbs. Ако никой не знае, става въпрос за хора, които тежат над 600 фунта и отиват при д -р сега, за да получат операция за отслабване чрез някаква стомашна лента, но за да докажат, че са готови да спазват диета, трябва да отслабнат с около 80 килограма за два месеца. Почти всички случаи през първите два месеца губят или нищо, или само няколко килограма. Д -р Сега им дава добър разговор с няколко силни думи и работи за около 95% от надничащите. С други думи, аз не съм измислил колелото с моите забележки …….. Бъдете в безопасност всички вие & Murrs, знаете какво трябва да направите колега, така че нека го направим, а. Ще се видим от другата страна Плаза
Ik ben sprakeloos. Je hebt de wilskracht van een vlo. Wat was er iets meer dan een week geleden een dag clean, voordat ik me liet scheuren? Murrs mijn vriend, maak je alsjeblieft geen zorgen over mij, of maak me niet boos met wat je doet. Ik heb mijn eigen demonen om tegen te vechten, ondanks dat ik bijna twee jaar lang geen slots meer speel na een verslaving van 41 jaar. Ik kijk nog steeds naar de slots via Twitch en ik zie hoe alle piepers $ duizenden in deze slots pompen en verliezen en het werkt een traktatie voor mij omdat ik bij mezelf denk dat ik al dat geld zou kunnen verliezen. Maar het was buitengewoon teleurstellend om te lezen dat je $ 50k hebt verknald in een 3-daagse buigmachine en dat het laatste bericht correct was. Als je weet dat je deze verslaving hebt, waarom heb je dan in godsnaam toegang tot contant geld? Geen wonder dat je vriendin je heeft verlaten, je moet het van haar kant zien. Ongetwijfeld was je de afgelopen 3 dagen niet beschikbaar terwijl je aan het gokken was en om uit te leggen waar je bent geweest en geld op te blazen dat een gloednieuwe auto zou hebben gekocht, ben je een beetje verbaasd dat ze je verliet? Bedenk hoe ze zich voelt en denk hoe ze zich altijd zal voelen als ze bij een verslaafde is. Zal ze je ooit kunnen vertrouwen, zelfs na de 21-daagse cursus in mei, nee, dat zal ze niet en kun je haar dat kwalijk nemen? Je moet je hart en ziel in deze relatie leggen en als je daar niet toe bereid bent, dan heb je het dieptepunt nog niet bereikt. Totdat je die bodem bereikt, zul je altijd die verslaafde zijn. Ik bedoel je geen kwaad man en ik ben je ook niet aan het trollen met mijn berichten. Maar mensen die mij kennen, weten dat ik het zeg in plaats van het te denken. Ik ben niet iemand die je belt als je eenmaal de rug hebt toegekeerd, nee, ik zal je recht in je gezicht roepen en dit bericht is hetzelfde. Je weet precies wat je moet doen en als je niet bereid bent om je recht op je geld af te staan aan iemand die je vertrouwt, dan ben je nog steeds erg geïnteresseerd in gokken. Ik zal je geen geluk wensen, want het betekent niets. Pas als je enige vooruitgang hebt geboekt, zal ik mijn gevoelens met je delen. Maar ik wens je veel succes met het terugkrijgen van je partner, dat ik oprecht hoop dat het je lukt, maar het kan al te laat zijn en je kunt haar op geen enkele manier de schuld geven van wat je hebt gedaan. Blijf veilig Plaza
I’m speechless. You have the will power of a flea. What happened to be being clean for a day just over a week ago, before I let rip?
Murrs my friend, please do not worry about me, or upsetting me with what you are doing. I have my own demons to fight, despite coming up to my 2nd anniversary of being slot free for two years after a 41 year addiction. I still watch the slots via Twitch and I get to watch all the peeps pump $thousands into these slots and lose and it works a treat for me because I think to myself, that could be me losing all that cash.
But it was extremely disappointing to read you blew $50k in a 3 day bender and the last post was correct. If you know you have this addiction, why in gods name do you have access to cash? No wonder your GF left you, you have to see it from her side. No doubt you were not available for the last 3 days whilst out gambling and the to explain where you have been and blown cash that would of bought a brand new car, are you a bit surprised she left you? Think how she feels and think how she will always feel being with an addict. Will she ever be able to trust you, even after the 21 day course in May, no, she will not and so can you blame her? You need to put your heart and soul into this relationship and if you are not prepared to do that, then you still have not reached rock bottom. Until you do reach that bottom, you will always be that addict.
I mean you no harm fella and I am not trolling you either with my post’s. But peeps who know me, know I say it instead of thinking it. I am not one of those who will call you once your back is turned, no, I will call you to your face and this post is the same. You know exactly what you need to do and if you are not prepared to give up your right to your cash to someone you trust, then you are still very interested in gambling.
I will not wish you luck because it means nothing. Only when you have made some progress, will I share my sentiments with you. But I do wish you luck in getting your partner back, that I do sincerely hope you manage, but it may already be to late and you can no way blame her for what you have done.
Stay Safe
Plaza
Аз съм безмълвен. Имате силата на волята на бълха. Какво се случи, че бях чист за един ден преди малко повече от седмица, преди да позволя да разкъсам? Мъни приятелю, моля те, не се притеснявай за мен, нито ме разстройвай с това, което правиш. Имам свои демони, с които да се боря, въпреки че навърших втората си годишнина да бъда свободен от слотове две години след 41 -годишна зависимост. Все още гледам слотовете чрез Twitch и мога да гледам как всички хора изпомпват хиляди долари в тези слотове и губят и това ми върши работа, защото си мисля, че това може да съм загубата на всички тези пари. Но беше изключително разочароващо да прочета, че си взривил 50 000 долара в 3 -дневен огъвач и последният пост беше правилен. Ако знаете, че имате тази зависимост, защо, за бога, имате достъп до пари? Нищо чудно, че вашият GF ви напусна, трябва да го видите от нейна страна. Без съмнение, че не сте били на разположение през последните 3 дни, докато не играете хазарт и не можете да обясните къде сте били и да издухате пари, които биха купили чисто нова кола, малко изненадани ли сте, че ви е напуснала? Помислете как се чувства и помислете как винаги ще се чувства, когато е с наркоман. Ще успее ли тя някога да ти се довери, дори и след 21 -дневния курс през май, не, няма и няма ли да я обвиняваш? Трябва да вложите сърцето и душата си в тази връзка и ако не сте готови да направите това, значи все още не сте достигнали дъното. Докато не достигнете това дъно, винаги ще бъдете този зависим. Искам да кажа, че не вредите, колега, и аз не ви троля с публикациите си. Но пичове, които ме познават, знаят, че аз го казвам, вместо да мисля. Не съм от тези, които ще ти се обадят, след като ти обърнат гръб, не, ще ти се обадя в лицето и този пост е същият. Знаете точно какво трябва да направите и ако не сте готови да се откажете от правото си на парични средства на някой, на когото имате доверие, тогава все още се интересувате от хазарт. Няма да ви пожелая късмет, защото това не означава нищо. Само когато постигнете известен напредък, ще споделя моите чувства с вас. Но аз ви пожелавам късмет да върнете партньора си, искрено се надявам да се справите, но може би вече е късно и няма как да я обвинявате за това, което сте направили. Stay Safe Plaza
I’ve not played casino since Monday, but placed a sports bet on Tuesday. Seriously, is that ok?
If your gambling problem is so vile, why is it ok to place a bet the day after making it through day one?
I have been following this post since I joined nearly two years ago now and this going to upset probably all of you, but why is no one being harder on Murr. The guy is no where to be seen when he’s got cash after winning life changing amounts of cash, loses it, feels like shit, does the same again, disappears again and all I read is, ohhh we feel for you and you can beat this and share this and share that. No one says, actually Murrs, you want us to feel sorry for you because you have lost it all again. But time and time again, you give updates, leaving everyone thinking if you have topped yourself and all along, you where in the casino winning money that would wipe away all your debts in one go and still have cash left over. The reason you didn’t go to the casino after placing the sports bet on Tuesday is because the sports bet didn’t win. Had it won, you would of gone.
I have said it before, I am not you or been that bad, or maybe I have, but had more will power, I don’t know. But yeah, I have gone without food and spent my last penny and walked home many miles after placing my last cash into a slot. But even after a 41 year addiction, I had the sense to walk away when I won something decent. Ok, so big wins on slots in the U.K. are not big because unless you are in a casino, the highest payouts have been from £10 back in the late 80’s to just £100 in the here and now in pubs. So I would walk out if I was ever up £70 for instance and would only go back when I was short of cash to try and win again. But I can not understand what you are chasing after winning life changing amounts of cash, surely, you have accomplished what you set out to do.
But, I can not carry on reading all the comments about you can beat this or this is so awful to read. No, someone needs to say what most of us are thinking anyway I’m sure. Why has not said anything about Murrs placing a bet on Tuesday the day after being clean for a day, what are you all afraid of? Upsetting Murrs? He’s a grown adult and the way he’s been going is clearly not working, so why not try some hard words instead. Telling him he’s, the strongest person on this forum is Simply not true. Those words are for people who have reached rock bottom and then beaten their addiction and continue to remain gambling free, that’s being the strongest person. I do not even consider myself to be that strong despite kicking a 41 year slot machine addiction which by the way is two years on the 18th April. With no help, although I did join this site to help me when I first stopped. I hate myself for the money I have lost through my lifetime and I still continue to gamble on sports betting but that’s always been in moderation. I could lose a grand in a day on the slots and not bat an eyelid, but place my highest sports bet of just £100 and I am a nervous wreck and I can count on two hands how many times I have placed a £100 sports bet.
That’s getting away from the reasons for this post. Murrs, you need to dig deep, much deeper than ever before, put a line under that day and go day 1, write daily updates about thoughts and actions you took to stop yourself from gambling. But hey, what do I know. I’m just a nobody who will get criticism about being to hard on you, but hey, I can take it. I have earned the right to say what I have said, if I ever go back on the slots, you’ll be the first to know and I will deserve everything I get.
I won’t say good luck and all that bollox, you know what you have to do, now just do something about it and stop all this oh, I can’t do this without all of your love crap. It’s not worked in the past, so it’s not going to work in the future.
However, I will say, Stay Safe to you all, regardless if you agree with me or not.
Plaza
I got to admit, I have never been this bad. Yes I have lost in excess of £250,000 during my lifetime and no, I am not a high roller or someone who’s got cash to lose. No sir, I am a man who’s best job paid £20k a year.
But, you have to take responsibilities and writing about your recent relapse, may of been a way to share your disappointment, but people like me, take what you wrote, and gives me satisfaction that knowing what you have just gone through, could very easily be me. I don’t mean this is in any nasty or troll way and I hope you see that, but knowing your disappointment actually Spurs me on more than before I read this post by yourself. This could of very easily been the other way round. You reading about me going to the casino and playing slots (which is my addiction). Like you, it’s around the same length of time I have been clean, if that’s the correct word.
So take something from this, learn from it and know that you are actually helping other people. We can all read and relate to what you have just done, but you are not alone. 18 months is still a massive achievement, so reset and try and pass that now. You know you can do it, we all know you can do it and draw strength from all of us, who have your back.
So dust yourself down, make sure you can not get to that cash and you go again, back into an individual who is going to beat this. If you feel yourself being tempted, get on here and tell us and hopefully by communicating it stops you. But you know all this, you gotta be strong when it matters.
I wish you continued best wishes.
Stay Safe
Plaza
Hi pal,
You really need to be stronger. It’s all well and good people saying do this, read that, stop that. But unless you get a grip and seriously want to quit, you’ve got to want it more than anything. If you don’t give it 100% you will fail, it’s that simple.
You need to tell ALL your friends and family about your problem. Tell them everything and the more people you tell, the more people you are letting down. It’s worked for me and I’ve been a slot machine addict for 41 years. But for the first time ever, I told everyone I knew about my addiction and it’s actually worked. It’s not just me I’m letting down but every single person I’ve told and that weight on my shoulders seems to of done the trick.
But you’ve got to want it. Trying to win something Back is NOT the mindset you need. What’s gone is gone forget about it, but you definitely need to draw a line in the sand and say that’s enough. If you still gamble after all that, then I don’t really know were you can go after that. But hopefully the power of letting everyone know and it’s got to be everyone, not just a select few, otherwise it won’t work.
Good luck though.