Thank you so much. Velvet you took such time with your response. Millie – I hope you take up the invitation. Thing is I feel like a bit of a fraud as we have had 3 happy years with no backsliding. It’s by no means the constant drain that others here are experiencing . I’m just not feeling brave at the idea of staying married just for the kids. The trust is gone – but a good chunk of the time our home life is peaceful.
