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Parabéns por começar seu novo tópico, estou feliz que você começou um e não saiu. Eu não quero que ninguém saia nunca !! haha, a pequena comunidade que temos aqui tem que ficar junta. Lamento saber de todas as coisas que estão acontecendo com a família. Essa coisa com sua mãe já dura muito tempo com ela sendo abusiva. É horrível para você passar. É maravilhoso saber que você está com o grande bebê .. Espero que tudo se resolva bem em breve. Ainda bem que Lizbeth você não está recorrendo ao jogo .. fique seguro P

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Muito bem em começar seu novo tópico, estou feliz que você começou um e não saiu. Eu não quero que ninguém saia nunca !! haha, a pequena comunidade que temos aqui tem que ficar junta. Lamento saber de todas as coisas que estão acontecendo com a família. Essa coisa com sua mãe já dura muito tempo com ela sendo abusiva. É horrível para você passar. É maravilhoso saber que você está com o grande bebê .. Espero que tudo se resolva bem em breve. Ainda bem que Lizbeth você não está recorrendo ao jogo .. fique seguro P

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新しいスレッドの開始は順調に進んでいます。スレッドを開始して終了しなかったことをうれしく思います。誰にも残してほしくない!!ハハ、私たちがここにいる小さなコミュニティは一緒にいなければなりません。家族と一緒に起こっているすべての悪党を聞いて申し訳ありません。あなたのお母さんとのこのことは、彼女が虐待している状態で長い間続いています。あなたが通過するのはひどいです。あなたがおばあちゃんと一緒にいると聞いて素晴らしいです..私はすべてがすぐにうまくいくことを願っています。良いことはあなたがギャンブルに頼っていないリズベスです..安全を保ちますP

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Sewwa meta bdejt il-ħajt il-ġdid tiegħek, jien kuntent li bdejt wieħed u ma tlaqtx. Ma rridx li xi ħadd jitlaq qatt !! haha, il-komunita 'żgħira li għandna hawn trid tibqa' flimkien. Jiddispjaċini nisma bit-tgergir kollu li għaddej mal-familja. Din il-ħaġa ma 'ommok ilha għaddejja biż-żmien biha tkun abbużiva. Huwa orribbli għalik li tgħaddi. Ta 'l-għaġeb li tisma' int mat-tarbija l-kbira .. Nispera li kull xorta tidħol ok malajr. Ħaġa tajba hija li Lizbeth m'intix qed tirrikorri għal-logħob tal-azzard .. ibqa 'sigur P

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Svaka čast na pokretanju nove teme, drago mi je da ste je započeli i niste otišli. Ne želim da itko odlazi !! haha, mala zajednica koju imamo ovdje mora ostati zajedno. Žao mi je što čujem o svim lopovima koji se događaju s obitelji. Ova stvar s tvojom mamom traje već duže vrijeme dok ju je ona zlostavljala. Užasno je što to prolaziš. Divno je čuti da ste s velikom bebom .. Nadam se da će se sve uskoro riješiti. Dobro je što Lizbeth ne pribjegavaš kockanju .. budi sigurna P

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Jól tetted, hogy elkezdted az új szálat, örülök, hogy elkezdted, és nem hagytad el. Nem akarom, hogy bárki is elmenjen !! haha, a kis közösségnek, ami itt van, együtt kell maradnia. Sajnálattal hallom, hogy a családdal minden bántalmazás történik. Ez a dolog anyukáddal már régóta tart azzal, hogy bántalmazó. Borzasztó, hogy átélheted. Csodálatos hallani, hogy a nagybabával vagy .. Remélem hamarosan minden rendben lesz. Még jó, hogy Lizbeth nem folyamodik szerencsejátékhoz .. maradjon biztonságban P.

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Bravo la pornirea noului tău fir, mă bucur că ai început unul și nu ai plecat. Nu vreau să plece nimeni vreodată !! haha, mica comunitate pe care o avem aici trebuie să rămână împreună. Îmi pare rău că am auzit de toate lucrurile care se întâmplă cu familia. Chestia asta cu mama ta se întâmplă de mult timp, ea fiind abuzivă. Este îngrozitor pentru tine să treci. Minunat să te aud că ești cu copilul cel mare .. Sper că totul se va rezolva ok în curând. Bine este că Lizbeth nu recurgi la jocuri de noroc .. stai în siguranță P

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I am thrilled for you getting that refund.. its rare so grab it with both hands and spend up a storm for christmas wahoooo

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Just popping in to say hi too.. i wish all good things for you at this time. The good thing is to see a post from you again. I sometimes dont post for periods either. Its always good to see a familiar face, well cant say face, but friend, come back and say hi , i always wonder if everyone is ok yet i do it myself.. lol..

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Well i loved the sound of those little bits and pieces you got for christmas. Glad you didnt stop to gamble, ugh the thought of you stopping in there and not getting the things you did. The difference in how you would have returned home.
You returned home with things for christmas, a whole lot better than returning home broke, full of regret and plans to chase the money back.. happy for you Laura, hope to see you in chat soon

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Hi I did it

I hope you really enjoy the show and great to hear you are laughing and enjoying life. Hope to see you in group soon

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Yes.. guess i was just looking at opinions as they differ on this one. Decided against it as i have heard others struggle with facebook slots and the like even if they dont spend much or no money. i dont need to go there. What would be the point

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Thanks for all the replies, i was just curious to see what peoples take on it was.
In the GA literature their definition of what is gambling, cant remember what it is off the top of my head but something along the lines of the outcome of chance or something or other for money or not.. probaby nothing like that but someone was telling me this.
It is not important to me if it is or isnt i was just curious. I think the way to tell is if it affects your life and if it cuases negative circumstances.
Many say if you buy a raffle ticket or a lotto ticket your day goes back to day one, also with online gambling, for money or not. So i was told.
I havent done free slots i have heard others that have though and it has not made their life a more postiive one.
I do agree that it probably would keep the fire alive as i have thought. So should i risk that and take a look.. the answer is clear to me.
Many other games to play out there if i really want to.
Thanks for the replies i just like to see what others think.

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Il see anyone in groups when they are back for a chat.. for now i think its time for me to move on from here.

This is the end of my journal

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Yes i remember you.. cant tell you how many day 1’s i have had. This addiction is constant.. we can have days away from it but its always there, thats why people go to GA for years and years because the addiction doesnt actually go away so neither should the support.
Its easy to get lulled into a false sense of security in recovery especially when having some time up. It doesnt matter what day it is, it matters that we dont start again. Once we start we cant stop.. i see we as in its the same for most who have crossed the line.. they are the ones im talking about including myself.
You are spot on.. gamble or dont gamble, there absolutely is no grey area or in-between.. but once started it is incredibly hard to stop again, but you can.
You will stop again, you have before and you coming back here is testament to that. Dont think of day one just continue on now and you have experienced a pothole in your recovery.. i find day counting detrimental for the reason if there is a relapse it often is so devastating to the person to say day one again, it doesnt wipe away all the gamble free time you had and learnt.. recovery continues..
The important thing now is to stop again and continue support.. you can do this.. we all can with support.

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