[olegna10]

I wanted to say thank you to everyone that took the time to post a few weeks back. There was a lot of good feedback given and I really appreciate it.
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nKathryn, you mentioned something about her not emotionally abandoning me and maybe “she just hasn’t got any more to give right now.” I think (and hoping) you are right. Although we’re not formally/legally separated we have taken the last month a part. She has visited her family in one state and I visited my family in another state. We saw each other a couple of times to swap the kids but very briefly.
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nI feel the like the time away has helped a little. I stress “a little” given that we have had some conversations about where her mind is at but nothing major. Like my gambling, I take life one day at a time. Looking at too much can be overwhelming so little steps help.
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nShe is coming home this week with the kids so this is a big week in our recovery. I know she still wants space (and I’ll give it to her) but hoping as the days, weeks and months move on that we can really talk about our situation and focus on the solution vs. the problem. At least that’s the hope.
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nThanks again to everyone that took the time to write something. You words help!
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nThanks,
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