[monique]

Many thanks for your kind wishes, Vera. Every blessing to you and yours.

Monique

[monique]

Hi Velvet
All good wishes for now and the coming year. I hope your husband is ok.

Monique

[monique]

Oi Vera. Que gentileza de sua parte colocar seus pensamentos aqui, mostrando sua gratidão. Eu também sinto falta dos horários de grupo e espero que um dia possamos começar de novo. Agora mesmo, tenho muitas coisas acontecendo que precisam ser atendidas, então não posso marcar uma data de retorno. Mas é bom ser lembrado! (Eu vejo suas postagens, então ainda mantenha um pouco de contato.) Todos os votos de boa sorte, Monique

[monique]

Hi Vera. How kind of you to put your thoughts out here, showing your appreciation.
I do miss the group times too and hopefully, one day, we will start up again.
Just now, I have a lot going on that needs to be attended to, so I can’t put a date on a return. But it’s nice to be remembered!
(I do see your posts, so still keep a bit in touch.)

All good wishes,

Monique

[monique]

Oi Vera. Que gentileza de sua parte colocar seus pensamentos aqui, mostrando sua gratidão. Eu também sinto falta dos horários de grupo e espero que um dia possamos começar de novo. Agora mesmo, tenho muitas coisas acontecendo que precisam ser atendidas, então não posso marcar uma data de retorno. Mas é bom ser lembrado! (Eu vejo suas postagens, então ainda mantenha um pouco de contato.) Todos os votos de boa sorte, Monique

[monique]

Hej Vera. Hvor er du venlig at lægge dine tanker ud her og vise din påskønnelse. Jeg savner også gruppetiderne, og forhåbentlig starter vi en dag igen. Lige nu har jeg gang i meget, som der skal tages hensyn til, så jeg kan ikke sætte en dato på et afkast. Men det er rart at blive husket! (Jeg kan godt se dine indlæg, så hold stadig lidt kontakt.) Alle gode hilsner, Monique

[monique]

Obrigado a ambos por suas amáveis palavras. Sentirei sua falta também – mas espero recuperá-la no futuro. Enquanto isso, continue com a recuperação e sempre cuide de si e dos outros em sua jornada. Atenciosamente, Monique

[monique]

Thank you both for your kind words. I shall miss you too – but hope to catch up in the future. Meanwhile, keep going with recovery and always take care of yourselves and others on their journey.

Best wishes,

Monique

[monique]

Obrigado a ambos por suas amáveis palavras. Sentirei sua falta também – mas espero recuperá-la no futuro. Enquanto isso, continue com a recuperação e sempre cuide de si e dos outros em sua jornada. Atenciosamente, Monique

[monique]

Tak til jer begge for jeres søde ord. Jeg kommer også til at savne dig – men håber at indhente i fremtiden. I mellemtiden skal du fortsætte med genoprettelsen og passe altid på dig selv og andre på deres rejse. De bedste hilsner, Monique

[monique]

I have just read through your thread, including all the responses you have had. Some folk have written very bluntly and honestly – I think because they can see that you are most likely in a lot of danger, but are rationalising the warning signs, because you also see something that you really, really want. As others have already said, that ‘something’ may turn out to be part of a big manipulationon on the part of your girlfriend.
I too would say please look after yourself, protect your finances, look for a sharing of responsibility in this relationship etc. Be prepared to step back a bit and put some healthy boundaries in place – if you can’t get cooperation on that, ask why and if things are right for you.
I think most of the important points have already been made quite forcibly. Do please take care and perhaps pause before things go further – if it is a good relationship, it will pick up after a pause, but, if not, you may just save yourself from a lot of pain.
Do offer your support for your g/f to work on her own recovery, but don’t risk your own well-being and safety.

Best wishes,

Monique

[monique]

Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

As well as the forums New Members are invited to join Charles in the New Members Practical Advice Group On Mondays at 21:00 (UK) and Thursday at 19:00(UK)

And on that note….

I’m going to hand you over to our community because I’m sure they will have some words of wisdom for you 🙂

Take care

The Gambling Therapy Team

PS: Let me just remind you to take a look at our privacy policy and terms and conditions so you know how it all works!

[monique]

Hi Slotjunkie

I’m sorry that we got disconnected during group. Internet problems. It was good to chat briefly.

Best wishes,

Monique

[monique]

Good to hear from you, Seri. Hope all continues well for your Dad and that you can find the right way forward regarding keeping your finances safe from now on.

Best wishes,
Monique

[monique]

Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

As well as the forums New Members are invited to join Charles in the New Members Practical Advice Group On Mondays at 21:00 (UK) and Thursday at 19:00(UK)

And on that note….

I’m going to hand you over to our community because I’m sure they will have some words of wisdom for you 🙂

Take care

The Gambling Therapy Team

PS: Let me just remind you to take a look at our privacy policy and terms and conditions so you know how it all works!

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