[lizbeth4]

How are you? I understand helping family members. I’ve done it on numerous occasions. I’m sorry that you are having to deal with the debt and the thought of bankruptcy. I will be praying for you. You’ve been through so much and really created a positive life for yourself. You will get through this also. You are a very strong lady!!!

[lizbeth4]

My Daughter passed 1 section of the test but failed 2 other parts by 2 questions. She has 2 more tries. She passed the section she was most worried about. She has this weekend to study. She is getting a lot of positive support on social media from her friends and family!!!! She will do it!
I’m home. Yeah! Working tonight and tomorrow. Doing my taxes tomorrow and getting them in the mail ASAP! State tax refund=new tires!
I learned a great lesson today, first hand. My friends who I pet/housesitted for have a lot of money!!! She is a CG and he is in remission (cancer). They are the most unhappy people I’ve met. Money doesn’t buy HAPPINESS. I have friends who don’t have a lot but their homes are happy homes.
My happiness is my Daughters and Grandchildren. I wouldn’t trade them for anything.

[lizbeth4]

Gathering up my things and straightening up. I’ll be glad to be home. Pray for my Daughter today. She is testing for her CDL permit. She has test anxiety! She has gone all week to school despite some problems that arose during the week. I’m so proud of her.
I received a bill that I forgot about (every 3 months). Time to prioritize and pay the bills I can. A few may have to be 1 week late. Some anxiety bit I’m learning to control that also so I don’t get overwhelmed. I’m going to make a better budget spread sheet.
Work is ok. I still don’t get the feedback from my Boss. It can be frustrating at times. I will hold on to the job until my Daughter finishes school or I reach my financial goals.
No plans for today. One thing for sure, gambling isn’t a part of it!

[lizbeth4]

Maybe your Husband is just feeling frustrated. It’s hard for someone who doesn’t have our addiction to understand. Maybe he could read a book about gambling addiction or online articles pertaining to gambling addiction. This may be useful. I’m so glad that you were not able to gamble. It would only make things worse. Stay positive. One day at a time!

[lizbeth4]

It’s good to hear that you are thinking through the gambling thoughts before acting on them. For me that’s the key to abstain. Do you have another cold front coming through your state? It’s been cold here (for us), 18 degrees last night and light snow. BRRRR! You are included in a handful of people who have been really supportive to me. I really appreciate it! No gambling =happier me!

[lizbeth4]

I went to check my home this morning as the temperature last night was 18 degrees. Everything was fine. No frozen pipes. Visited with my Mom. Now back at housesitting job. My friends will be home tomorrow. I must be a real homebody as I am anxious to be home. LOL!
I did some thinking today. I’m not where I want to be financially, physically and spiritually. But I’m a lot further then I was when I was gambling. It’s a process, a lesson and everyday I’m gamble free, the closer I am to a better me. Some days are a struggle but once the day is over, there is a sense of accomplishment. So, if you’re struggling today, remember that tommorow is a new day! Keep going.

[lizbeth4]

Vera, I wish there were closer GA meetings near me. I would attend. They are very helpful if you find thr right group of people. Your posts are positive and supportive to all of us here.

[lizbeth4]

My Grandson is a great kid! I don’t take having my Granddaughter full time lightly. I will need to build a support system. Part time daycare will be in the pictute. It’s good for her to be with other children and will give me a break also. My youngest Daughter has little education, skills. This is her opportunity to make good money and save for a house, ect…for her and her daughter. I feel like I need to help her. I’m not going to gamble. I’m saving any extra money to cover things my Granddaughter will need until my Daughter can start financially supporting her. I have more reasons not to gamble now!!!! It’s all going to work out.

[lizbeth4]

Feeling better! The plans fell through with seeing my Daughter and Granddaughter this weekend. Another time. I just want her to concentrate on school. I will go to the city soon. The tinest of things would send me off to the casino but I feel like I’m dealing with things more constructively now . Great news today, my Grandson made the school basketball team! He is also going to Disneyland with his band class. He is very proficient playing the violin. His gifted classes are going well He continues his chess class and is competing once a month.
He’s a well rounded person. My oldest Daughter and her boyfried are doing a good job.
Going to try and go to bed early as last night was a restless night. I’m grateful for getting anothet chance at a gamble free life.

[lizbeth4]

I’ve been taking it easy today. My stomach has been upset. Resting until work. Thank goodness I only have 1 building to clean. No gambling thoughts today. Looking forward to seeing my Daughter and Granddaughter on Saturday!!! I will be glad to be back in my own bed on Friday. There’s no place like home!

[lizbeth4]

Funny story about the zipper! Don’t get discouraged about the debt. Keep chipping away at it! You will get out of debt and rebuild your credit. Be patient. As long as we don’t gamble, we will get there!

[lizbeth4]

As I just wrote on Nick’s thread, just focusing on today works for me. If I look too far ahead, my anxiety begins. Also, finding a positive thing to be grateful for zaps out the negative thoughts More rain and some snow in the forecast the next 2 days. Actually, I like rain and some snow!! The pet/house sitting is going well. The dog is older and sleeps a lot. I have cable here so I’m binge watching TV. LOL! This is the 2nd day of school for my Daughter. I’m praying that she succeeds. My lifestyle will change being a full time Grandmother. But I’m prepared to give it my all. My trip, ect…can be put on hold. Life is full of turns and twists but there’s always something new and exciting waiting for us!

[lizbeth4]

I find that getting through and focusing on today works for me! Also, focusing on the positives helps. Have a great gamble free day!

[lizbeth4]

It was good to see your post. I’m sorry about your finamces but you seem to be doing all that you can. One day at a time applies also. I’m praying things get better for you. The positive is that you and Hubby are communicating better and you are not gambling. Have a nice werkend trip. You deserve it! The picnic for your Mum was very special. I can’t believe that it’s been a year already. It’s great to keep the memories going. Your Grandchildren sound delightful. My oldest turned 13 and my Granddaughter will be 2 in March. Time flies. Try not to sttess too much. I know that’s easier said than done. Take care.

[lizbeth4]

I’ve made it through the day without gambling! I had a major anxiety attack this afternoon. I’m going to see my Daughter and Granddaughter this weekend. I need to talk to my Daughter face to face. I have no problem taking care of my Granddaughter while my Daughter is on the road but I’m going to have to build my support system: play groups, maybe part time daycare as my Granddaughter needs to be around other children and I will need a break also. My Mom and Sister have made it clear that they don’t support my decision. It’s just a lot to take in! I’m asking God to help me through this.

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