I wanted to add a very important item : my husband is sick and has a very serious and severe illness and I have 2 small children. I am struggling on how to take care of my family and how to help my brother our and watch him and how to manage my parents when they will find out (they will be devastated) . Over past week (since I found out) I did not do well and my family is suffering from that. I just don’t know how to balance it all and how to manage it…
