Hey, worriedmama and velvet thanks alot for your support. I write this lines because i did talk with my mom and my sister. My mom doesn’t matter what happening with my dad, because she would like he signs the divorce paper, and she thinks that my dad is not the man who he was and who she got married.
My sister wants to help him if he would like to be helped, because she thinks that he has transformed a mythomaniac; “Everything that he says about to help us is a lie … He used our financial need to get money from our kin and then he used it to gambling”
Finally my mom talked with my paternal grandmother, and she said to my mom that she give him money every week to something of my house. My grandmother cry because she feels that my dad has a problem and he don’t want to be helped. Also, my grandmother believe everything that my dad tell her.
I really want he can be able to understand the problem that he has.
Sometimes, I feel that The only thing that he matters are the bets of the day. I live with the fear of someday to arrive at my house and find not anything, because he needed the money.