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  • in reply to: nieuw begin #91278
    joerdj
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    Of misschien is het geen van bovenstaande, ik zou de definitie van waanzin kunnen aanhalen, maar dat doe ik deze keer niet. Geld korte termijnen betekenen niets wanneer u het verspilt aan uw volgende transactie. Stop eerst een tijdje met wat je aan het doen bent en zoek dan naar antwoorden. Je kunt dit verslaan.

    in reply to: नयी शुरुआत #92421
    joerdj
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    या हो सकता है कि यह उपरोक्त में से कोई नहीं है, मैं पागलपन की परिभाषा उद्धृत कर सकता हूं, लेकिन मैं इस बार ऐसा नहीं करूंगा। मनी शॉर्ट टर्म्स का कोई मतलब नहीं है जब आप इसे अपने अगले व्यापार पर बर्बाद करते हैं। पहले आप जो कर रहे हैं उसे कुछ देर के लिए रोकें, फिर जवाब तलाशें। आप इसे हरा सकते हैं।

    in reply to: свіжий старт #91337
    joerdj
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    Або, можливо, це ніщо з перерахованого вище, я міг би навести визначення божевілля, але цього разу я цього не зроблю. Короткі терміни грошей нічого не означають, коли ви витрачаєте їх на наступну угоду. Спочатку припиніть на деякий час те, що робите, а потім шукайте відповіді. Ви можете перемогти це.

    in reply to: ново начало #92625
    joerdj
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    Или може би не е нищо от горното, бих могъл да цитирам определението за лудост, но този път няма да го направя. Парите в кратки срокове не означават нищо, когато ги хабите за следващата си сделка. Първо спрете за известно време това, което правите, след това потърсете отговори. Можете да победите това.

    in reply to: nový začátek #97762
    joerdj
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    Nebo to možná není nic z výše uvedeného, mohl bych citovat definici šílenství, ale tentokrát to neudělám. Krátké termíny peněz nic neznamenají, když je promrháte na další obchod. Nejprve na chvíli zastavte to, co děláte, pak hledejte odpovědi. Můžete to porazit.

    in reply to: nuovo inizio #100849
    joerdj
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    O forse non è nessuno dei precedenti, potrei citare la definizione di follia, ma questa volta non lo farò. Il denaro a breve termine non significa nulla quando lo sprechi nella tua prossima operazione. Per prima cosa, interrompi quello che stai facendo per un po', poi cerca delle risposte. Puoi battere questo.

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52825
    joerdj
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    Sorry to say but I always find that xyz program is very expensive a useless argument. We wasted ridiculous amounts of money in slots, and a program that can prevent that is always cheaper then waste your money again. 

    Anyway try : https://betblocker.org/

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52818
    joerdj
    Participant

    I was also thinking of the why. Why me why not someone else why why why. But all these questions, even if I get an answer, won’t change anything to the situation I’m in now.

    What you are seeking is rational answers to something that is not rational. Even if there was a reason, would it matter for the situation you are in now?  This is your brain trying to rationalize its own behavior (cognitive dissonance).

    Your brain is a complicated thing, but basically you have a primitive brain and the thinking brain. With this and more situations those are in a struggle with each other. Your primitive part is driven by emotions, the rational part by reason.

    Hence when you place a bet, your primitive brain wins the battle from your rational brain. When the high is over your rational brain is back in action and you think why why why. 

    In no way I’m trying to say you should not pursue your quest for answers, just don’t forget you live in the now. 

    in reply to: 30 день #123244
    joerdj
    Participant

    Что ж, завтра моя зарплата поступит на мой счет. Обычно я очень плохо спал накануне. Просто из-за беспокойства и желания сделать ставку. Надеюсь, эта ночь будет лучше. По-прежнему играть бесплатно в течение 48 дней. Я решил сделать себе подарок, когда мне исполнится 100 дней. Для этого, начиная с 50-дневной отметки, я буду экономить 2 евро в день, так что когда истечет 100 дней, я смогу купить себе подарок. У меня все еще остались деньги от моей последней зарплаты, так что это впервые за долгое время. До 50 дней и далее

    in reply to: Day 30 #54794
    joerdj
    Participant

    Well, tomorrow my salary will hit my account.
    Normally I would sleep very poorly the day before. Just because of being restless and wanting to place a bet.

    Hopefully, this night will be better. Still gambling free for 48 days. I have decided to give myself a present when I hit 100 days.

    So to do that I will, from the 50-day mark onwards, save 2 euro a day, so when the 100 days are due I can buy myself the present.

    I still have money leftover from my last salary, so that’s for the first time in a while.

    On to the 50 days and onwards

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7088
    joerdj
    Participant

    Hi sunflower,

    How did the counselling go if I may ask ?

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54841
    joerdj
    Participant

    What bills are urgent? It look like the freezing of your account will be inevitable, but you say you have the necessities. I am i bit confused right now.  Could you clarify further what the exact problem will be if they freeze your account if you can still pay for food. Is it about losing a place to sleep ? 

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7086
    joerdj
    Participant

    I think the therapist wants to do harm reduction because you are at the moment bound to each other with the lockdown going on. In that sense, I can understand that maybe this is “better”.

    You have tried everything and he is lucky to have you at your side. As long as you keep your own finances and health safe.

    I wish you all the best 

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54838
    joerdj
    Participant

    How is it going Ivan?

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7084
    joerdj
    Participant

    Hi Sunflower 

    Please keep positive and keep posting!

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