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  • in reply to: nový začátek #97762
    joerdj
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    Nebo to možná není nic z výše uvedeného, mohl bych citovat definici šílenství, ale tentokrát to neudělám. Krátké termíny peněz nic neznamenají, když je promrháte na další obchod. Nejprve na chvíli zastavte to, co děláte, pak hledejte odpovědi. Můžete to porazit.

    in reply to: nuovo inizio #100849
    joerdj
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    O forse non è nessuno dei precedenti, potrei citare la definizione di follia, ma questa volta non lo farò. Il denaro a breve termine non significa nulla quando lo sprechi nella tua prossima operazione. Per prima cosa, interrompi quello che stai facendo per un po', poi cerca delle risposte. Puoi battere questo.

    in reply to: bidu ġdid #91564
    joerdj
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    Jew forsi mhix waħda minn dawn t'hawn fuq, nista 'nikkwota d-definizzjoni ta' ġenn, imma din id-darba ma nagħmilx hekk. Termini ta 'flus qosra ma jfissru xejn meta taħli fil-kummerċ li jmiss tiegħek. L-ewwel, waqqaf dak li qed tagħmel għal ftit, imbagħad fittex tweġibiet. Tista 'tħabbat dan.

    in reply to: νέα αρχή #93115
    joerdj
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    Or ίσως δεν είναι τίποτα από τα παραπάνω, θα μπορούσα να παραθέσω τον ορισμό της παραφροσύνης, αλλά δεν θα το κάνω αυτή τη φορά. Οι σύντομοι όροι χρημάτων δεν σημαίνουν τίποτα όταν τα σπαταλάτε στην επόμενη συναλλαγή σας. Πρώτα, σταματήστε αυτό που κάνετε για λίγο και μετά αναζητήστε απαντήσεις. Αυτό μπορείς να το νικήσεις.

    in reply to: awal yang baru #97770
    joerdj
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    Atau mungkin bukan salah satu di atas, saya bisa mengutip definisi kegilaan, tapi kali ini saya tidak akan melakukannya. Uang jangka pendek tidak berarti apa-apa ketika Anda menyia-nyiakannya untuk perdagangan Anda berikutnya. Pertama, hentikan apa yang Anda lakukan untuk sementara waktu, lalu cari jawaban. Anda bisa mengalahkan ini.

    in reply to: újrakezdés #101134
    joerdj
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    Vagy talán ez nem a fentiek egyike, idézhetném az őrület definícióját, de ezúttal nem teszem ezt. A rövid pénzkifejezések semmit sem jelentenek, ha a következő kereskedésre fordítják. Először hagyja abba azt, amit csinál, egy ideig, majd keressen válaszokat. Ezt legyőzheted.

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52825
    joerdj
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    Sorry to say but I always find that xyz program is very expensive a useless argument. We wasted ridiculous amounts of money in slots, and a program that can prevent that is always cheaper then waste your money again. 

    Anyway try : https://betblocker.org/

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52818
    joerdj
    Participant

    I was also thinking of the why. Why me why not someone else why why why. But all these questions, even if I get an answer, won’t change anything to the situation I’m in now.

    What you are seeking is rational answers to something that is not rational. Even if there was a reason, would it matter for the situation you are in now?  This is your brain trying to rationalize its own behavior (cognitive dissonance).

    Your brain is a complicated thing, but basically you have a primitive brain and the thinking brain. With this and more situations those are in a struggle with each other. Your primitive part is driven by emotions, the rational part by reason.

    Hence when you place a bet, your primitive brain wins the battle from your rational brain. When the high is over your rational brain is back in action and you think why why why. 

    In no way I’m trying to say you should not pursue your quest for answers, just don’t forget you live in the now. 

    in reply to: Day 30 #54794
    joerdj
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    Well, tomorrow my salary will hit my account.
    Normally I would sleep very poorly the day before. Just because of being restless and wanting to place a bet.

    Hopefully, this night will be better. Still gambling free for 48 days. I have decided to give myself a present when I hit 100 days.

    So to do that I will, from the 50-day mark onwards, save 2 euro a day, so when the 100 days are due I can buy myself the present.

    I still have money leftover from my last salary, so that’s for the first time in a while.

    On to the 50 days and onwards

    in reply to: 30 день #123244
    joerdj
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    Что ж, завтра моя зарплата поступит на мой счет. Обычно я очень плохо спал накануне. Просто из-за беспокойства и желания сделать ставку. Надеюсь, эта ночь будет лучше. По-прежнему играть бесплатно в течение 48 дней. Я решил сделать себе подарок, когда мне исполнится 100 дней. Для этого, начиная с 50-дневной отметки, я буду экономить 2 евро в день, так что когда истечет 100 дней, я смогу купить себе подарок. У меня все еще остались деньги от моей последней зарплаты, так что это впервые за долгое время. До 50 дней и далее

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7088
    joerdj
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    Hi sunflower,

    How did the counselling go if I may ask ?

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54841
    joerdj
    Participant

    What bills are urgent? It look like the freezing of your account will be inevitable, but you say you have the necessities. I am i bit confused right now.  Could you clarify further what the exact problem will be if they freeze your account if you can still pay for food. Is it about losing a place to sleep ? 

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7086
    joerdj
    Participant

    I think the therapist wants to do harm reduction because you are at the moment bound to each other with the lockdown going on. In that sense, I can understand that maybe this is “better”.

    You have tried everything and he is lucky to have you at your side. As long as you keep your own finances and health safe.

    I wish you all the best 

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54838
    joerdj
    Participant

    How is it going Ivan?

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7084
    joerdj
    Participant

    Hi Sunflower 

    Please keep positive and keep posting!

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