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Здравей Вера, здравей Darkenergy Благодаря и на двамата за публикациите. Първоначално мислех, че Darkenergy означава добре, но той не ме познава. През последните няколко дни обаче се изкушавах всяка вечер. Не съм залагал, защото съм натрупал определена сила, докато не съм бил заложен на хазарт … но кой има нужда от караницата да води тази битка, когато блокиращият освобождава ума ми! Вашият съвет е на място. Вера, и ти си права за мисленето – ако разчитахме изцяло на бариерите – в момента, в който те се провалят, ние ще се провалим. Трябва да се пазим и да работим върху себе си! В крайна сметка защо това прави това по -трудно, отколкото трябва да бъде? Няма награди за затрудняване на нещата – наградите са за това да останете без хазарт, но ние успяваме да направим това и не съм готов да върна спечелените награди! Имах най -добрите 8 месеца от последното десетилетие и съм щастлив!

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Hai Vera , hai Darkenergy Terima kasih atas kiriman Anda berdua. Pada awalnya saya pikir Darkenergy bermaksud baik tetapi dia tidak mengenal saya. Namun, saya telah tergoda setiap malam selama beberapa hari terakhir. Saya tidak berjudi karena saya telah memperoleh kekuatan tertentu sementara saya bebas berjudi … tetapi siapa yang perlu repot bertarung dalam pertempuran ini ketika seorang pemblokir membebaskan pikiran saya! Saran Anda tepat. Vera Anda juga benar tentang pola pikir – jika kita mengandalkan sepenuhnya pada hambatan – begitu mereka gagal, kita akan gagal. Kita perlu menjaga diri kita aman dan bekerja pada diri kita sendiri! Intinya adalah mengapa membuat ini lebih sulit dari yang seharusnya? Tidak ada hadiah untuk membuat segalanya menjadi sulit – hadiahnya adalah untuk tetap bebas berjudi namun kami berhasil melakukannya dan saya belum siap untuk mengembalikan hadiah yang saya peroleh kembali! Saya memiliki 8 bulan terbaik dalam dekade terakhir dan saya bahagia!

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Salut Vera, salut Darkenergy Merci à vous deux pour vos messages. Au début, je pensais que Darkenergy voulait dire bien mais il ne me connaît pas. Cependant, je suis tentée tous les soirs depuis quelques jours. Je n'ai pas joué parce que j'ai acquis une certaine force alors que j'étais libre de jouer… mais qui a besoin de s'embêter à mener cette bataille lorsqu'un bloqueur libère mon esprit ! Vos conseils sont pertinents. Vera, tu as aussi raison sur l'état d'esprit – si nous nous appuyions entièrement sur les barrières – à la minute où elles échoueraient, nous échouerions. Nous devons nous protéger et travailler sur nous-mêmes ! En bout de ligne, pourquoi rendre cela plus difficile qu'il ne devrait l'être ? Il n'y a pas de prix pour rendre les choses difficiles – les prix sont pour rester sans pari mais nous y parvenons et je ne suis pas prêt à rendre les prix que j'ai gagnés ! J'ai eu les 8 meilleurs mois de la dernière décennie et je suis heureux !

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हाय वेरा, हाय डार्कनेर्जी आप दोनों को आपकी पोस्ट के लिए धन्यवाद। पहले तो मुझे लगा कि डार्कएनर्जी का मतलब अच्छा है लेकिन वह मुझे नहीं जानता। हालांकि, पिछले कुछ दिनों से हर रात मेरी परीक्षा हो रही है। मैंने जुआ नहीं खेला है क्योंकि मैंने एक निश्चित ताकत हासिल की है जबकि मैं जुआ मुक्त हूं … लेकिन इस लड़ाई को लड़ने की परेशानी की जरूरत किसे है जब एक अवरोधक मेरे दिमाग को मुक्त कर देता है! आपकी सलाह हाजिर है। वेरा आप मानसिकता के बारे में भी सही हैं – अगर हम पूरी तरह से बाधाओं पर भरोसा करते हैं- जिस क्षण वे असफल हो जाते हैं हम असफल हो जाते हैं। हमें खुद को सुरक्षित रखने और खुद पर काम करने की जरूरत है! लब्बोलुआब यह है कि इसे और अधिक कठिन बनाने की आवश्यकता क्यों है? चीजों को कठिन बनाने के लिए कोई पुरस्कार नहीं है – पुरस्कार जुआ मुक्त रहने के लिए हैं, हालांकि हम ऐसा करने में कामयाब होते हैं और मैं उन पुरस्कारों को वापस देने के लिए तैयार नहीं हूं जो मैंने अर्जित किए हैं! मेरे पास पिछले दशक के सबसे अच्छे 8 महीने रहे हैं और मैं खुश हूँ!

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Zdravo Vera, zdravo Darkenergy Hvala vam oboje na vašim postovima. Isprva sam mislila da Darkenergy znači dobro, ali on me ne poznaje. Međutim, bio sam u iskušenju svake noći posljednjih dana. Nisam se kockao jer sam stekao određenu snagu dok se nisam kockao … ali kome trebaju gnjavaže u vođenju ove bitke kad mi bloker oslobodi um! Vaš savjet je na mjestu. Vera, i ti imaš pravo u vezi s načinom razmišljanja – ako bismo se u potpunosti oslanjali na prepreke – u trenutku kad oni ne uspiju, mi bismo propali. Moramo se čuvati i raditi na sebi! Zaključak je zašto ovo otežavati nego što bi trebalo biti? Ne postoje nagrade za otežavanje stvari – nagrade su za to da se ne kockate, međutim mi to uspijevamo i nisam spreman vratiti nagrade koje sam zaradio! Imao sam najboljih 8 mjeseci u proteklom desetljeću i sretan sam!

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Hi Vera , hi Darkenergy
Thank you both for your posts.

At first I thought Darkenergy means well but he doesn’t know me. However, I have been tempted every night for the past few days.
I haven’t gambled because I have gained a certain strength while I haven been gamble free…but who needs the hassle of fighting this battle when a blocker frees my mind! Your advice is spot on.
Vera you are right too about mindset – if we relied completely on barriers- the minute they fail we would fail. We need to keep ourselves safe and work on ourselves !

Bottom line is why make this any more difficult than it needs to be?
There are no prizes for making things hard – the prizes are for staying gamble free however we manage to do that and I’m not ready to hand the prizes I earned back !
I have had the best 8 months of the past decade and I am happy!

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Hi Eli,
Sorry to hear you gambled but well Done on coming back.
Now is the time to take action to close every last door Eli – you know those ones the addiction convince us won’t matter.

You don’t need to go to Africa – you can create barriers so strong here that you simply cannot gamble. This might mean trusting others with your money – it’s a hard thing to do but much easier than trusting a casino with it.

Let this be the last hard lesson Eli.
Throw everything you have at recovery
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Hi Steev
Netflix was the foundation of my recovery so I’m with you. Interestingly it is becoming less important as other interests take over. I still avoid Tetris as I do find gaming very addictive and eBay I now only buy from – I don’t need to sell my stuff to pay for dinner anymore !

I think though you are right – whatever it takes to stop us gambling and stay stopped! I have always said there is no one size fits all! We all need the help that we need.
I won’t go into my thoughts on GA but it definitely wasn’t for me.
I’m not sure about intention- because every time
I gambled my intention was to spend £20 and withdraw any winnings.
This is, however, a great thought provoking discussion and challenging things in this way is very conducive to gambling recovery.

I hope all is good with you Steev!

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Hi Kin
Is the big picture so bad?
As a young woman my career was moving at a meteoric rate.
Then I had a baby and my career didn’t matter so much any more. My baby became my single most important reason for living.
Our dreams change, we make mistakes along the way, but we become better people.
Perhaps the big picture is self- reflection, self- improvement and self- acceptance?
Perhaps in our youth we didn’t quite know ourselves or understand what was important in life.
All those little changes are like throwing a pebble into the water. We never know where the ripples will end up.

Thank you for sharing – your posts always make me think !

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私のスレッドにとても素敵な投稿をしてくれてありがとうDE。あなたはまだこれらの多くを達成することができますが、私はあなたが何を意味するのか理解しています。私たちはずっと後で物事に到達しているように感じますが、おそらく私たちがそこに着くとき、待つことはそれをすべて甘くするでしょう。強く保つ ！

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Thank you DE for your very nice post on my thread.
You can still achieve so many of these things but I do understand what you mean.
We do feel like we are much later getting to things but perhaps the wait will make it all the sweeter when we get there .
Keep strong !

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Paldies DE par jūsu ļoti jauko ziņu manā pavedienā. Jūs joprojām varat sasniegt tik daudz no šīm lietām, bet es saprotu, ko jūs domājat. Mums šķiet, ka mēs daudz vēlāk ķeramies pie lietām, bet, iespējams, gaidīšana padarīs to saldāku, kad mēs tur nokļūsim. Esi stiprs !

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Hvala DE na lijepom postu na mojoj temi. Još uvijek možete postići toliko mnogo toga, ali razumijem na što mislite. Osjećamo se kao da ćemo mnogo kasnije doći do stvari, ali možda će čekanje biti još slađe kad stignemo tamo. Budite jaki!

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Дякую, DE, за чудовий пост у моїй темі. Ви все ще можете досягти таких речей, але я розумію, що ви маєте на увазі. Ми відчуваємо, що ми набагато пізніше дійдемо до справ, але, можливо, чекання стане ще солодшим, коли ми туди дійдемо. Тримайся міцно!

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Gracias DE por tu muy buena publicación en mi hilo. Todavía puedes lograr muchas de estas cosas, pero entiendo lo que quieres decir. Sentimos que estamos llegando mucho más tarde a las cosas, pero tal vez la espera lo haga aún más dulce cuando lleguemos allí. Mantener fuerte !

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